October 2009

(Varies check website) (Varies) It is the largest burlesque event in the world, and has attracted sold-out crowds since its beginning in 2002. Festival producers, Thirsty Girl & Pontani Sisters Productions will deliver forth once again 4 nights of glitter and glamour in Gotham, with over 50 eye-popping performances from the world's leading burlesque and variety entertainers at four of NYC's hottest nightclubs. In addition to tassels and tail feathers, this year's festival offers live music, international DJ's, variety and circus performers, and boylesque! (4 day pass $90) Event Website

(City Center, 131 West 55th St, New York, NY 10019) (8PM) For ten exhilarating days each year, feel the rush…the exuberance…the sheer joy that is dance, from New York City, across the country, and around the globe! Experience the world-famous alongside the cutting-edge, treasured favorites surrounded by undiscovered gems. Multiple companies appear in each performance, offering audiences a sampling of the best that dance has to offer – from hip hop to ballet, tango to tap, and so much more. ($10) Event Website

(Tribeca screening Room, 54 Varick Street, New York, NY 10013) (7pm) Dames, Documentaries and Discussion. "A Girl is a Fellow Here" 100 women architects in the Frank Lloyd Wright studio. "Out Late" LGBT elders' stories of coming out after age 55. ($50/$100VIP) (212-741-2247 x240) Event Website

(PS 3, Hudson St. between Christopher & Grove, New York, NY 10014) (7:30 PM) Even the uninitiated can feel at home with quick instruction in Western square dancing with a live caller at these Intro to Square Dancing Open Houses. Come alone or bring your partner. And make sure to dress comfortably – you’ll be moving all evening. You'll learn all about Modern Western square dancing, and many of the Basic/Mainstream calls. Light refreshments will be served. (FREE) Event Website

(Sideshows by the Seashore Theater & Coney Island Museum, 3006 West 12th St & 1208 Surf Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11224) (Varies see website) The Coney Island Film Festival screens a truly eclectic range of films from the U.S. and all over the world and much to the delight of the audience features a number of "made in Coney Island" productions each year. The main screening venue is the legendary Sideshows by the Seashore theater, home to America's last authentic 10-in-1 circus sideshow. The infamous opening night celebrations feature live performances by sideshow & burlesque stars. ($10) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm-10pm) Meet mature, stylish, professional women in brief, one on one mini dates. Structured. Relaxed. Great results. Mingling/refreshment break. Write down who you want to see again. Receive your mutual matches. Make friends, get dates, find a girlfriend or companion. Fun. ($26) (212-989-8549) Event Website

(Riverside Church, 490 Riverside Dr, New York, NY 10027) (11:30AM) The NYC 2009 Chat &Chew Caucus gathering for and by Leaders Infected with HIV and AIDS, Reflect on the State of HIV/AIDS in NYC, Share our Consumer Advocacy Stories, Recruit PLWHA’s to your NYC HIV/AIDS Initiatives Empower each other for 2010 -- RSVP via email: [email protected] (Free) [email protected] Event Website

(Brooklyn Botanic Garden, 1000 Washington Ave, Brooklyn, NY 11225) (Noon- 6PM) The grooves are smokin' and the chile peppers are scorchin'. Enjoy a full afternoon of music and dance from chile-loving regions around the world. Indulge at the Chocolate Chile Cabana, where you can sample goodies, meet some of today's most exciting, red-hot chocolatiers, and cast your vote at the Brooklyn Chile Peppers 'n' Chocolate Takedown. Feel the heat as spicy food specialists and chefs offer sizzling samples, cooking demonstrations, and tasty tips. Don't miss your chance to savor the fiery flavor…Brooklyn style. ($4-8) Event Website

(The Museum School, 333 West 17th St (btwn 8 & 9th Aves), New York, NY 10011) (7:30 P.M.) They are ALL Winners but only one will wear the CROWN!! ($20) Event Website

(Various locations on 25th St btwn 10 & 11th Aves) THE DROP: URBAN ART INFILL is a day long festival of public interactive art, music, and fashion projects. In the spirit of participation, THE DROP: URBAN ART INFILL is a double call to urban inhabitants to interact with and contemplate the city as well as their relationship to the greater environment through the arts. The festival seeks to provide space in the center of Chelsea and bring together developers, business owners, the art community and New York communities to think locally and globally. Ryuichi Sakamoto, Yoko Ono, DJ Spooky, Mamoru Oshii, and others are among the artists. (FREE) Event Website

(City Winery, 155 Varick St (btw Spring & Vandam), New York City, NY 10013) (11AM - 2PM) ISLE OF KLEZBOS special quintet w/guest artists: Debra Kreisberg - clarinet & sax Eve Sicular - drums & leader Karen Waltuch - viola (Gloria Deluxe, Roulette Sisters, Spring Awakening, Wilco, Beth Orton) Shoko Nagai - accordion & piano (Sanda Weigl, Elliott Sharp, J. Edgar Klezmer) Reuben Radding, bass: reubenradding.com ($10; kids under 13 FREE (& no brunch minimum)) (212-608-0555) [email protected] Event Website

(Carnegie Hall, 881 Seventh Avenue, New York, NY 10019) (8pm) Gavin Friday and Friends: Laurie Anderson, Antony, Elizabeth Ashley, Bono, Adam Clayton, Andrea Corr, The Edge, Flo & Eddie, Joel Grey, Bill Frisell, Guggi, Scarlett Johansson, Courtney Love, Lydia Lunch, Patrick McCabe, Maria Mckee, Shane MacGowan, Eric Mingus, Larry Mullen, Jr., JG Thirlwell, Martha Wainwright, Rufus Wainwright, Chloe Webb, and other special guests. Similar concerts are taking place around the world. ($35 - $250) Event Website

(Columbia University, Broadway & 116th St, New York, NY 10027) (10am - 5pm) A free day of fun and books, plus live entertainment, on-site children’s bookstore, readings, book signings and giveaways. The New York Times has partnered with children’s libraries to establish the list of Favorite Read-Aloud Stories. Celebrities from film, TV, community and Broadway will read from the 20 books on the list live at the Great Children’s Read! Featured entertainment at the Target Children’s Stage this year will include performances by Justin Roberts & the Not Ready for Naptime Players, Peter Yarrow, Playhouse Disney’s “Choo-Choo Soul,” John Carter Cash, Hip Hop Harry and Yo Gabba Gabba! There also will be a reading and signing by Broadway star and actress Bernadette Peters. (FREE) Event Website

(Chelsea Art Museum, 556 West 22nd Street, New York, NY 10011) (7:30pm) Open Bar Sponsored by: Izze Sparkling Beverages, Stolichnaya. Audience will be treated to a Choreography Exposed conversation with Artistic Director Jennifer Muller and demonstration by The Works’ dancers, in which she will discuss her collaborative and creative process in developing this powerful dance. This will be followed by a full performance of Bench. ($15-30) (212-255-0719 ex) [email protected] Event Website

(Queens County Farm Museum, 73-50 Little Neck Pkwy, Floral Park, New York, NY 11004) (11am - 4pm) A large variety of apples, apple products, and freshly pressed cider will be available. The nation's largest apple cobbler will be baked on site. Enjoy cider pressing demonstrations while leaning fun apple facts at this delightful event. (FREE) Event Website

(Abingdon Theatre, 312 West 36th Street, (betwn 8th & 9th Ave), New York, NY 10018) (7:00 PM) A one night only benefit performance. Singing thirty-two years of Neil Diamond top hits including Sweet Caroline, Cracklin’ Rosie, Cherry Cherry, I Got the Feelin Diamond Tom is known for his spot-on renditions. It is as if the legendary star himself is making a special appearance. Tom will also be performing popular songs from the 60’s, 70’s and 80’s – standard tunes from great artists including Sinatra, Morrison, Orbison and others. Benefit for the Abingdon Theatre ($25.00 pre-sale) (212-868-2044) [email protected] Event Website

(Chelsea Studios, 151 West 26th Street, 6th Floor, New York, NY 10011) (7 pm / 8 pm) Shake your Glove Thing! at 7 pm and Thriller Nights! at 8 pm. We're honoring Michael Jackson with dance classes inspired by his genius. There's no better way to remember a man than to dance in his shoes. So grab your crotch! Put on a bedazzled glove. Face that man in the mirror, and don't stop 'til you get enough! ($20 (multi-class card discount)) [email protected] Event Website

(Chelsea Art Museum, 556 West 22nd Street, New York, NY 10011) (7pm) Annual Fall Benefit. Featuring performance by Rufus Wainwright, a cocktail reception and spectacular silent & live auctions. Honoring Christine Quinn and Council Member Lewis A. Fidler. ($150+) Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (7 PM) In a lighthearted and offbeat presentation, brothers Joe and David Zellnik offer songs from "Yank!," their new, gay World War II musical. Yank stars the incredible Kerry O'Malley from both Broadway and TV's Showtime drama Brotherhood. (FREE) Event Website

(Theatre at St. Clement’s, 423 West 46th Street, New York, NY 10036) (See website for schedule) A tale of enduring passion and hope, The ToyMaker tells the story of Sarah, a young woman who is struggling in her marriage after two failed pregnancies. Rumors of a childless toy maker of the past set her on a desperate search for the last toy made by this man. Thus begins a journey that spans the globe and time itself. Sarah's quest to find the 'childless toy' and solve the mysteries of a village destroyed by war lead her to a destiny of fulfillment she once thought impossible. ($20) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Dr. Blas Falconer is a poet and author of A Question of Light and Gravity. Carmelita Tropicana is a playwright and an Obie Award winning performer and author of I, Carmelita Tropicana: Performing Between Cultures. Curator, Steven Cordova. ($10) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(East Side Institute, 920 Broadway, 14th Floor, New York, NY 10010) (7PM) Where is Lesbianism? Please join us for a four-week exploration of whether and how Lesbianism is now playing a positive role in the social, emotional, cultural and political development of America and Americans. In our collective exploration we will use - among others - the performatory, social therapeutic methodology of Fred Newman and Lois Holzman, which is well-suited for our era of “post-identity” politics. ($35-$100) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) In this sensuous and intelligent memoir, Mary Cappello wonders aloud for us what breast cancer awareness really makes us aware of, and responds as if for the first time to the deceivingly simple command: “tell me what you’re feeling.” Called Back looks through the lens of cancer to discover new truths about intimacy and essential solitude, eroticism, the fact of the body, and the impossibility of turning away. ($10) Event Website

(Comix, 353 west 14th street, New York, NY 10014) (7:30PM) MEL & EL are about to make a pilgrimage to Washington, D.C. to march for LGBT equality. but first they gotta do a show! MEL & EL: GAY MARRIED is a musical Laverne & Shirley meets Sex & the City with a lower shoe budget and a higher ratio of in-your-crotch comedy. Hailed as "outrageous" by The New York Times and "hilariously squirm-inducing" by the Village Voice, real life best friends and award-winning NYC cult phenomenon MEL & EL have brought down the house at Ars Nova, ($15/pre-sale, $20-door) [email protected] Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (8PM) Party hard in our amazing, huge, rooftop sukkah against the beautiful NYC skyline. Our sukkah is a lovely, community-made, temporary cabin covered in leaves and greenery. It's big enough to invite the whole LGBTQ crew over for a crazy night of fabulous fun. Join us for our annual sukkot-a-bration! No rules, no holding back, just an amazing soiree under the stars. ($10) Event Website

(Private Home in Manhattan) (6pm) Join the Astraea Foundation as we celebrate photographer, writer and activist Lora Jo Foo's new book, Earth Passages. Consisting of 28 vignettes and 53 color nature photographs, Earth Passages tells the story of the author growing up in the inner city ghetto of San Francisco's Chinatown - in poverty, in a housing project, at the age of 11 sewing in a garment sweatshop. In the girl's rare escapes into the woods she discovers a magical world so unlike the ghetto in which she lives. The stories from childhood are paired with color nature photographs taken by the author as an adult. Sponsors:_Astraea Lesbian Foundation for Justic, Ms. Foundatio, National Asian Pacific American Women's Forum and Women's Environment & Development Organization. (212-529-8021 x14) [email protected] Event Website

(Various Locations, Hamptons, NY) Now in its 17th year, this East Coast favorite comes to life against the fall back-drop as talent, industry and audiences participate in what has now become a premiere International Film Festivals. The Hamptons International Film Festival was founded to celebrate independent film and to introduce a unique and varied spectrum of international films and filmmakers to our audiences. The Festival is committed to exhibiting films that express fresh voices and differing global perspectives, with the hope that these programs will enlighten audiences, provide invaluable exposure for filmmakers and present inspired entertainment for all. Event Website

(See website for different venues) (Varies see website) An all-star lineup of celebrity chefs including Bobby Flay, Rachael Ray, Tom Colicchio, Guy Fieri, Giada De Laurentiis and many more. Enjoy culinary demonstrations, discussion panels, book signings and special tasting events in America's culinary capital. Truly a one-of-a-kind experience that combines our stars with New York’s most delicious offerings for one rewarding weekend. Food Bank For New York City and Share Our Strength (Varies see website) Event Website

(Laurie Beechman Theatre/Westbank Café, 407 W. 42nd Street between 9th and 10th, Subway: ACE to 42nd Street, New York, NY 10036) (7PM) The new CD is a Southern rock, pop celebration of the god/goddess within. We all have a little diva hiding inside us all. Isn’t it time to let it out? The project is a labor of love that combines the drag alter-ego YOLANDA and the make-up free Roger Anthony Mapes into one entity to form Roger Anthony Yolanda Mapes with all songs focusing on the human condition. Roger states that, “sometimes I love my pain, sometimes I love LOVE itself, and always I love others who inspire, motivate and even disappoint me.” n/a ($15 cover plus $15 food or drink minimum) (212.695.6909) Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (Friday, 1 - 8pm; Saturday, 11am - 6pm) DESIGNER FASHION THAT'S ON THE EDGE can be yours at the upcoming Manhattan Vintage Clothing Shows. A special exhibit for the upcoming show celebrates "vintage fashion on the edge." ($20) Event Website

(Radio City Music Hall, 1260 6th Ave, New York, NY 10020) (7:30PM) This fall, a once-in-a-lifetime experience comes to New York as Howard Shore's Grammy® and Academy Award®-winning score for The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring comes to life. The music of Middle-earth will be brought to life by more than 300 musicians: Switzerland's 21st Century Symphony Orchestra, the internationally-acclaimed The Collegiate Chorale, the Grammy Award®-winning Brooklyn Youth Chorus and renowned soprano Kaitlyn Lusk, all under the direction of celebrated Maestro Ludwig Wicki. ($54-150) (212) 307-4111) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (7:30 - 10:30pm) The value of affection is underestimated. Touch is a fundamental human need. It reassures us we are not alone. This annual event is a structured workshop on boundaries, communication, and intimacy. A drug and alcohol-free way to meet fascinating people in a relaxing environment where you can experiment with what makes you feel safe and good. Join other members of the LGBT community as we celebrate our desire to be a part of humanity. Rediscover non-sexual affection, examine assumptions about men & women, and network while meeting new friends & partners in a playful, fun safe space. You'll leave feeling relaxed, inspired & connected. Proceeds benefit the Poly Pride Rally. ($20+) Event Website

(The Little, Dryden, Cinema Theaters and Ingle Audi, ImageOut Office 274 N. Goodman St., Rochester, NY 14607) (days and evenings) ImageOut, The Rochester Lesbian & Gay Film & Video Festival is New York State's 2nd largest film festival now in its 17th year with 45 programs including 90 films from 19 contries viewable over 10 days and nights. Great Opening and Closing Events, visiting actors, producers, directors and writers as well as a three week long art show called ImageArt with 25 artists' work in all styles and using all mediums from the Finger Lakes Region. ($6-$15) (585-271-2640) [email protected] Event Website

(Various locations 5 boroughs) America's largest architect and design event opens its doors throughout New York City each October. Mark your calendars to discover new neighborhoods, explore with friends and family, and experience NYC's architecture and design in all five boroughs through special talks, tours, performances and family-friendly workshops – all free of charge! (FREE) Event Website

(Great Hill, Central Park (Enter from Central Park West at 106th St)) (12 - 6pm) Gather at noon, bring your own picnic lunch, and get a full day of insight and entertainment. Catch up on the latest humor, research, law, press, literature and music relevant to the growing polyamorous movement - in New York City, and around the nation. Friends, family, poly-curious, and poly-friendly are all welcome at this truly special, unique event. Speakers and Performers include: Houston Bernard's career has a wide range of music styles from outrageously lewd to soulful and heartfelt; Reid Mihalko, co-founder of Cuddle Party; Jim Fleckinstein, Board Member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom; Board Chair, Foundation of the NCSF; Sanjay Merchant, Opera Singer; Kelli Dunham, Comic. Ex-nun; and Barbara Foster, co-author of Three in Love, and more. (FREE) Event Website

(Washington D.C.) We are guaranteed equal protection by the 14th Amendment of the US Constitution. Free and equal people do not bargain for or prioritize our rights, so we are going to DC this October 10-11 to demand equal protection in all matters governed by civil law in all 50 states. Now! See you there... Event Website

(Sidewalk Cafe, 94 Avenue A, New York, NY 10009) (9PM) Lesbian recording artist Athena Reich will be performing in New York for her CD release concert. LITTLE GIRL DREAMS, produced by multiple Grammy/Emmy winner Cynthia Daniels (Melissa Etheridge, Chaka Khan etc). LITTLE GIRL DREAMS marks Athena’s coming into her own as a mature, articulate, reflective, dynamic original artist that can be compared to Annie Lennox’s “Diva” and Regina Spektor’s “Begin to Hope”. (two drink minimum ($15)) ((212) 473-7373) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00 PM) At this Speed-Dating event, meet lots of guys ages 20s & 30s one-on-one for a series of 3-minute dates, then get a free mingling period to meet anyone else in the room. Tell us which men you want a second date with, and minutes later you find out your matches. This is a great opportunity to meet guys for time-efficient face-to-face contact and see what kind of chemistry is there. It’s a lot of fun and could lead to meeting someone special! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(Don't Tell Mama, 343 West 46th Street, New York, NY 10036) (5PM-6PM or 7PM -8PM) Cabaret show:" Jim Speake sings My Generation" at Don't Tell Mama with Wendy A. Russell and Lennie Watts. Direction: Lennie Watts. Musical Direction: Steven Ray Watkins with the My Generation Band. The show includes songs recorded by James Taylor, Stevie Wonder, Billy Joel, Chicago, the Beatles, Jim Croce, Kenny Loggins, Neil Sedaka, Jimmy Webb, the Fifth Dimension and more. ($15) (212-757-0788) [email protected] Event Website

(Advent Lutheran/Broadway Church, 2504 Broadway at 93rd St., New York, NY 10025) (7:30PM) Rome is Burning Hot with Mozart! ($20) [email protected] Event Website

(Don't Tell Mama, 343 West 46th Street, New York, NY 10036) (6:30PM) Hector’s debut solo show explores the musicality of mortality through the songs of Susan Werner, Zoe Lewis, Brett Kristofferson, Kander & Ebb, Ben Folds, My Chemical Romance and other contemporary songwriters. Hector Coris is an award-winning out-performer who has appeared on nearly every cabaret stage in NYC. ($12 + 2 drink min.) (212 757 0788) [email protected] Event Website

National Coming Out Day is an internationally-observed civil awareness day for coming out and discussion about LGBT issues.

(Washington D.C.) (12 - 5pm) MENY is taking the annual Wedding March -- traditionally across the Brooklyn Bridge -- to Washington DC this year as their participation in the NATIONAL EQUALITY MARCH for GLBT rights. Event Website

(Tribeca Rooftop, 2 Desbrosses St, New York, NY 10013) (6pm) This year, PFLAG NYC is proud to present a very special program of entertainment at the dinner: Legendary singer Barbara Cook will dazzle the crowd in a rare benefit performance. The Right Rev. V. Gene Robinson, Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire, will be the featured speaker at the dinner. Program Emcee, Former Miss America and Broadway Star Kate Shindle. ($300+) Event Website

(Ars Nova, 511 West 54th Street, New York, NY 10019) (8PM) Closeted stars, hypocritical black Presidents and Facebook freaks beware, the insanely funny Billy Eichner is back to take you down! Known for his hilarious work on the Bravo A List Awards and fresh off his acclaimed Joe's Pub run, Ars Nova veteran Billy Eichner (Creation Nation) unleashes his comic fury in this updated show, featuring new material especially created for his Ars Nova fans! Directed by Benjamin Salka. ($25) (212-489-9800) [email protected] Event Website

(Merkin Concert Hall, 129 West 67th Street, New York, NY 10023) (8:00 PM) Steven Blier and Michael Barrett, pianist/hosts, and an array of today's top classical singers -- Paul Appleby, Amy Burton, Sasha Cooke, Sari Gruber, Dina Kuznetsova, Kate Lindsey, James Martin, William Sharp -- in a musical journey to their roots. Songs by Kurt Weill, Tchaikovsky, W.C. Handy, Schubert, Paul Simon, George Gershwin, Gustav Mahler, Harold Arlen, etc. ($40-$55, with student, group discounts) (212-501-3330) [email protected] Event Website

(Comix, 353 west 14th street, New York, NY 10014) (9 PM) Dykes on Mics is made up of two hilarious New York based comedians: Leah Dubie (HERE TV) and Amy Beckerman (MTV). Dykes on Mics has sold out shows across the Northeast and their NYC show has been billed as a “best bet” for comedy. The ladies have performed at Provincetown’s Women’s in Time Out New York. Recently, the group was featured in the LOGO documentary “Out In the City.” (no cover, 1 item minimum) Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (6:30pm) Women, girls and those who love them: Get an eye-opening, inspiration-boosting, life-enriching look at the revolution in women‘s lives over the past 50 years, with Gail Collins, Times Op-Ed columnist and author of "When Everything Changed: The Amazing Journey of American Women from 1960 to the Present," Gloria Steinem, preeminent women's rights leader, and Wilma Mankiller, the first woman Chief of the Cherokee Nation and Farai Chideya, award-winning author and journalist. ($25) Event Website

(Rubin Museum of Art, 150 West 17th St, New York, NY 10012) (7pm) Join ITL at the 2009 Season Premiere Gala honoring two of the LGBT community's most outspoken allies: Actress and activist Patricia Clarkson and Renowned Civil Rights Leader Julian Bond. The Rubin is THE perfect backdrop to launch the beginning of the 18th television season and to witness the unveiling of a new strategic direction, "Media for the Movement." ($175+) [email protected] Event Website

(Queens Theatre in the Park, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Queens, NY 11368, 718-760-0064) (Matinees & Evenings) A new relationship is rocky, an old one is challeneged and a beautiful house in Provincetown becomes a catalyst in this play about honor, honesty and the enduring power of love. "When I wrote this play in 1989, the gay community was just beginning to push for Civil Unions. Now Gay Marriage is a part of the national debate. It asks what is marriage; what is commitment? Those questions make this play more relevant today than when I first wrote it. ($20 - $38) (718-760-0064) Event Website

(Various Locations) QBC Int'l Film Fest is a progressive socially conscious film fest that brings you the best Black LGBTQ theme films from around the world. Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (7:00-9:00 pm) The walls of New York City’s LGBT Community Center will be rocking to the sounds of acoustic female vocalists as emerging female singer/songwriters share their work and voices in a benefit evening toward the research and prevention of cancer called “Relief Through Rock: Chicks for a Cure”. All ticket reservations and/or donations can be made by emailing [email protected] American Assocaition for Cancer Research ($15) (203-912-0787) [email protected]

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8 PM) Laugher is the best medicine. Cure what ails you with an evening of comedies written by the Village Playwrights, New York's LGBT playwrights collective. Based on a recent police sting and arrest of gay men in 8th Avenue adult video stores, George Bistransin’s farce “ENTRAPMENT” turns the tables on a rogue cop who entraps patrons of a gay video store. A gay man overcomes his obsessive jealousy when his high school rival reveals his secret longings in Bill Petersen’s charming romantic comedy “THAT SIXTH DEADLY.” In a sleazy gay bar at the end of the night, three guys have traffic problems sorting out who's picking up whom in George Bistransin’s comedy “LAST CA ($15) (718-381-1487) [email protected] Event Website

(Madame X, 94 W. Houston St., New York, NY 10012) (8 PM) Created by Michelle L'Amour (America's Got Talent, Burlesque Hall of Fame's Miss Exotic World 2005), the evening is a celebration of beautiful women sharing the books they love ... in the altogether.  The East Coast Premiere will feature local burlesque celebrities Jo Boobs, Gal Friday, Pinchbottom's Nasty Canasta, and more — as well as a very special guest appearance by Michelle L'Amour herself — reading selections from their favorite banned books. ($15) (866-811-4111) [email protected] Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (7:30pm) Two-time Academy Award-winning actress Hilary Swank and critically acclaimed director Mira Nair talk with New York Times culture reporter Patricia Cohen about their new film, "Amelia," based on the adventures of the legendary aviation pioneer Amelia Earhart. ($30) Event Website

(Asia Society & Museum, 725 Park Ave, New York, NY 10021) (6 - 9pm) Hosted by Asia Society, OP.LYNX & Q-Wave. Asia Society is our most gracious host for Women's Night at Leo Bar Networking Mixer. A record turnout of over 500 women joined us at the last mixer! Cash bar. (FREE) Event Website

(Hammerstein Ballroom, 311 West 34th St, New York, NY 10001) With the broad geographical reach of an Olympic event and the nervy psychological gamesmanship of the X Games, the championship takes the tournament’s international approach to design as spectator sport and amps it up like never before. 16 cities. 256 international competitors. 48 city champions in 2D Design, 3D Design, and Motion Design threw down their best designs onstage in this annual showcase. Withstanding the pressure of judges hovering, music blaring, minutes ticking down on the clock, a fast-talking MC on the mic, and putting their reputations on the line, three competitors in each city have made claims to the Cut&Paste title. Now they will face off against each other, to see which designer will be crowned the worldwide winner. The Global Championship will feature a tech setup that registers every mouse click and tapped command from the designers' workstations and projects them live and in real time on large-scale displays in full view of the audience. ($15 online, $20 at the door) Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (See website for times) The world’s oldest and largest sale and exhibit devoted exclusively to original vintage poster art. Posters are offered from more than 20 international dealers. Styles include Art Nouveau, Art Deco, Mid-century Modern, World War I, World War II & Cold War Era, food, wine and product advertising, film, travel and transportation, and sporting posters “Aviation Posters: From Bi-plane to Jet Plane,” a special exhibit featuring original vintage posters that highlight the history of aviation. ($15 all weekend) Event Website

(Various Locations) An all-star weekend of all things The New Yorker. Always sells out! Event Website

(St. Vincent's Comprehensive Cancer Center, 325 West 15th St (btwn 8 & 9th Aves)) (7:30am - 4pm) If you're an uninsured woman 40 or older, or over 35 with a history of breast cancer in your family, the Cancer Vixen Fund would like to invite you to participate in a FREE one-day mammogram screening event. To schedule your appointment, call 1-888-44-CANCER (888-442-2623). (FREE) (1-888-44-CANCER (888)

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm - 10pm) Tired of the bar scene? Meet quality, conscious men with depth who want more than one night hook-ups. One on one mini-dates & exciting group discussions. Structured. Non-intimidating. Great Results. Mingling/refreshment break. Find your compatible matches. Make friends, get dates, meet future boyfriend or companion. ($25 door- Earlybird special online) (212-989-8549) [email protected] Event Website

(West Chelsea Arts Building, 526 West 26th St. (10th & 11th Ave.), New York, NY 10001) (1:00 PM) Visit 8 exhibits of cutting-edge painting, sculpture, electronic media & photography, some by gay & lesbian artists and others of interest to a queer sensibility, led by a former gay studies professor and art critic for the New York Blade. While you’re there, socialize with arts-oriented gay men & lesbians! ($20) (212-946-1548) [email protected] Event Website

(Various Locations) (9:30am - 3:30pm) New York Cares Day is like a walk-a-thon, but instead of walking, you ask friends, family, and coworkers to donate in honor of your volunteer service. The work that you'll do will mean so much to thousands of New York City public school children. Event Website

(Black Box Theater, 308 West 133 St, (above Morning Star Pentecostal Church), Harlem, NY 10030) (8 & 10pm) milDRED, the artist formerly known as DRED performs a particularly mystical form of gender-illusioning, and one woMan show. Her act is less a typical impersonation and more a challenge to societal ideas of what it means to be male or female, while reminding the audience that there's some of each in everyone. It's no surprise that DRED's motto is "Love all of who you are...." The milDRED Love experience is a poetic, funky, fly, supernatural-high, comedic, thought-provoking and musical performance on gender-fluidity, and freedom of expression. From a gender alchemist named NOTTY DRED to a gender bending diva name DREDICIA, get your spirit tickled. Q&A to follow performance. Performance is part of a live taping. Event Website

(la.venue, 608 West 28th St, New York, NY 10001) (8 - 10pm) The second installment of Art of Rebellion is visiting NYC after a successful run in Santa Monica earlier this year. The show will feature renowned gig poster artists showing painted Iron 883 tanks and signature poster art along with photography by Adam Wright and Steven Stone. A chunk of the proceeds go to the CUE Art Foundation. Event Website

(Socrates Sculpture Park, 32-01 Vernon Blvd, Long Island City, NY 11106) (11am - 2pm) This FREE family and community event celebrates Halloween and the fall harvest with creative activities in the dynamic setting of Socrates Sculpture Park. The 2009 Festival theme is glamrock! Visitors will experience a live concert by New York's own, Audra Rox and become the rock stars of their dreams with the help of Socrates Sculpture Park artists. Participants will also have the chance to join a Giant Instrument Jam with Freestyle Arts Association. Try harvest foods from Sage General Store; picnic in the Park; or just watch the fun. Back by popular demand, Socrates will also host its 6th annual Canine Costume Contest at 1pm (registration at front gate). Visitors can enter their dogs and win fabulous prizes for being the cutest, scariest, best dressed or most rocked-out pooch. BARC Shelter, will be in attendance to help judge the contest and offer information about adopting a pet. Dr. Jules Adams from City Vet will also judge the contest. At 2pm, The Red Door Theatre Company will present a special outdoor performance of the The Legend of Sleepy Hollow. Chrysten Peddie has adapted this classic Halloween tale by Washington Irving for the Company's 3rd year with Socrates' Halloween Harvest Festival. Come see Ichabod Crane, Katrina Van Tassel, and Brom Van Brunt, as they tell the story of the Headless Horseman of Sleepy Hollow. A blanket or lawn chair is recommended. The performance is free of charge. The 2009 Halloween Harvest Festival takes place amid the EAF09: 2009 Emerging Artist Fellowship Exhibition, an exhibition of contemporary sculpture, featuring sixteen new works by the Park's current artists-in-residence (FREE) Event Website

(Gowanus section of Brooklyn) Visitors of A.G.A.S.T. have the opportunity to meet face-to-face with the creators of photography, drawing, printmaking, mixed-media, video, ceramics, glass, installation, paintings, sculpture & etc. in their own working studio environment. Artist studios are located in large industrial buildings as well as garages, brownstones and warehouses along the Gowanus Canal in Brooklyn. Event Website

(Duffy Square, at the intersection of 7th Avenue and Broadway) (1-3PM) Felines beware - dogs of all breeds and sizes have invaded the catwalk! Pretty paws and gorgeous growls are one thing, but the top prizes were awarded to the dogs whose costumes best evoked Times Square’s past or present, including historical figures like the VJ Day Sailor and Nurse, current Times Square characters such as New Year’s Eve celebrants, Broadway icons like the Phantom of the Opera, or even shady street characters from Times Square’s seedy past, because, as they say, poochin’ ain’t easy. Animal Haven’s Adopt-A-Pet (FREE) Event Website

(Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Pkwy, Brooklyn, NY 11238) (2 - 4pm) Feminist artist Linda Stein discusses her current exhibition Women of Valor at the Flomenhaft Gallery in Chelsea, sexism in the art world, and gender issues from a global perspective, encouraging her audience to be brave personally, professionally, and politically. Linda Stein's talk is supported by the Third Wave Foundation, the National Council for Research on Women, Astraea Foundation, Voice Male, Women of Color Policy Network, and Feminist Art Project. Event Website

(Manhattan Children's Theatre, 52 White Street, (between Broadway and Church Street, 2 blocks South of Canal Street), New York, NY 10013) (7:30PM) Directors Jeremy Bloom ("Stylish and inventive"-Theatermania; "Appropriately Pure"-New Yorker), and 2009 Lincoln Center Theater Directors Lab members Will Fulton, Annie G. Levy and Gabriella Willenz -alongside a cast of 36 actors- display their creative aesthetics, as they each sequentially approach a quadrant of Charles Mee's BIG LOVE. A tale of fleeing brides, forced marriages & murdered grooms. A One Night Only Event Benefiting MTWorks. ($20.00) [email protected] Event Website

(The Frank Gehry IAC Building, 555 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (7pm) Recognizing the important contributions of individuals and corporations to God's Love We Deliver and our Community: Calvin Klein - Lifetime Achievement; NYC Council Speaker Christine Quinn - Outstanding Service to the Community and Ed Prostak - Outstanding Volunteer. ($500+) (212-294-8162) [email protected] Event Website

(Various Locations) For 5 days and nights, over 1,200 artists and 120,000 fans will take over more than 75 of the city's greatest nightclubs and theaters. Headquartered once again at New York University's Greenwich Village campus; don't miss your chance to participate in New York City's largest music festival. CMJ '09 will feature exclusive nighttime parties, daytime exhibit areas, registrant lounges, a technology fair, artist and press lounges, meet and greets, panels, seminars, mentoring sessions, community initiatives, networking events, Q&As and special events. Event Website

(ihi (The Institute for Human Identity), 322 Eighth Avenue, Suite 802 at 26th Street, New York, NY 10001) (7 - 9pm) This is one of a series of Free Workshops for LGBTQ Parents from ihi (the institute for human identity), the pioneering, professional mental health service. This year, Family Q includes a wider range of workshops and counseling for LGBTQ parents and prospective parents. Led by esteemed mental health experts, most of whom combine their expertise with their own practical experience of being Q parents themselves, the program is singularly designed to alert participants to the emotional issues they and their children will face and give them the insights and tools needed for productive family building. Reservations are requested. (FREE) (212-243-2830) Event Website

(Sheraton Hotel & Towers, 811 7th Ave, New York, NY 10019) (5:30 PM) Margaret Cho emcees with the 2009 Douglas W. Jones Leadership Award going to The Hathaway Family - Anne Hathaway, Gerald & Kate Hathaway, Thomas Hathaway and Michael Hathaway & Joshua Lawsonaward. Celebrate ESPA's continued progress and success towards winning equality and justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) New Yorkers and our families. This event is ESPA's opportunity to mark their victories and thank the people who have helped us get closer to a better New York for all LGBT people. Empire State Pride Agenda ($500+) Event Website

(Second Stage Theatre, 307 West 43 Street, New York, NY 10036) (7:00PM) Channeling a dramatic range of interview subjects, from artists and athletes to doctors and those they treat, Let Me Down Easy is a virtuosic and moving exploration of the power of the body, the price of health, and the resilience of the spirit. Let Me Down Easy features first person accounts from a wide variety of sources, including Lance Armstrong and former Texas governor Ann Richards. Second Stage invites you to a special performance of LET ME DOWN EASY followed by a post-show reception. USE CODE HH55 to order $55 tickets (Reg. $70) ($55) (212 246 4422) Event Website

(New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center Street, Newark, NJ 07102) (8pm) This Tony-winning, Oscar-nominated star brings a collection of her greatest hits—from precocious Edith Ann and schizophrenic street lady Trudy to Mrs. Beasley, Sister Boogie Woman, and irascible telephone operator Ernestine. ($42 - 92) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm -10pm) Meet stylish women privately in one on one conversations and in groups with exciting topics, questions. Structured. Fun icebreaker. Refreshment/mingling break. Relaxed. Make friends, get dates, find a girlfriend. No more Saturday nights alone. Don't miss out! Register at .212-989-8549 (earlybird special online $25 door) (212-989-8549) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00 PM) It’s speed-dating with an ingenious twist: answer four questions about your interests, values, and lifestyle, and get assigned to four different groups of men who gave answers similar to yours. Also meet guys one-on-one in a free mingling period. Finally, write a list of the men you want to date, and minutes later you find out your mutual matches. Boyfriend Material is a fun, unique way to meet men you are compatible with, thereby increasing your odds that a relationship could take hold! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (1 - 4pm) Celebrate and share a spooky fun time with Center Kids Families. Come with your costumes and get ready to enjoy music, crafts, food and play with Checkers & Dots Entertainment. No need for pre-registration, just come to have fun. (Free. Donations are welcomed.) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(The Blvd, 199 Bowery, New York, NY 10003) (7PM) This is going to be an intense and invigorating show allowing the audience to explore their darkest dreams. The show features 18 different nightmares is the perfect Halloween treat for the dance community looking for something daring, decadent and different. Nightmares are a universal human experience occurring throughout the lifespan. The craft is athletic, unique and inspiring, making anyone who is watching intrigued. Scarlet Fever is a creative dance company based in NYC . n/a ($12 pre-sale & $15 at the door) Event Website

(The Imperial, 7 West 19th St. (betw. 5th & 6th Av), New York, NY 10011) (3:30 PM) Same great music from DJ NancyB’s fabulous collection of the best dance melodies through the years, from the early swaying tunes through the swing era to the present hip-swingers. And the same good company of women of all ages and all backgrounds, singles, in couples, as part of groups. Red dots are offered, as usual, for those available as a dance partner. The Dance Raffle remains, with a promise of a big cash prize to the first place winner, plus second and third prizes of value. SAGE (advance $20, Door $25) (212-741-2247) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (11AM-1PM/1PM-3PM/3PM-5PM) Presented by the Gay Coaches Collective of New York dedicated to sharing the boldness of coaching to enrich lives to the fullest. Transformational workshops that will empower you to make courageous choices in life, career and relationships. (GA $20 Students $20) Event Website

(John W. Engeman Theatre at Northport, 250 Main St, Northport, NY 11768) (5:30pm) Join HRC and friends at the John W. Engeman Theater at Northport's production of RENT. A block of 75 great seats have been reserved for HRC. Private cocktail reception at 5:30pm in the theater's lounge. ($75) [email protected] Event Website

(The Crowne Theater in the Producer's Club, 358 West 44th St., New York, NY 10036) (8pm) Newlyweds, Jack and Emily arrive at her father’s summer cottage for their honeymoon, only to find nothing is as it seems. After a visit from Jack’s ex-girlfriend who had followed them there, she is found outside, dead. The local Sheriff, a New York detective, and the famous mystery author who lives next door try to solve the mystery. After many arrests, including the bride and finally her father, the mystery turns out to be a humorous storm in a teacup. ($18) (917-438-9223) [email protected] Event Website

(The Producer's Club, 358 West 44th Street, New York, NY 10036, 212.315.4743) (6:30pm) All In Black And White Productions will present a reading of the stage play “FLOWERS” by Carolyn M. Brown and D.E. Womack. Love shouldn’t hurt. But when it does, who can you turn to and where can you run? “FLOWERS” tells the life stories of four women: Marisol, a loyal wife and mother; Diana, an inhibited teenager; Tamiko, a lesbian poet; and Ming, a devout Christian and first-generation immigrant. These women are of a different class, race and culture. But the one thing they all have in common—they’re the victims of domestic violence. “FLOWERS” is a theatrical performance that intertwines vignettes, monologues, poetic dialogue, and music. Talk Back to follow. ($5) [email protected] Event Website

(Feinstein's Loews Regency, 540 Park Ave, New York, NY 10065) (8pm) The True Colors Cabaret will intertwine performers from the world of Broadway and Popular Music, along with a celebrity host, for a night of amazing music in support of GLBT equality. Performers include Stephanie Block, Melinda Doolittle, Allison Janney, Megan Hilty and Gaven Creel. Hosted by Cyndi Lauper. To benefit True Colors Fund and Broadway Impact. ($40+) Event Website

(New World Stages, 340 W 50th St, New York, NY 10019) (6:30 PM) Alan Cumming is hosting. As with other forms of media, advertising has the power to change hearts and minds. Advertisers that promote fair, accurate and inclusive images of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community send an important message to their customers, to corporations and to any consumer who sees their ads. We will be honoring those companies that do just that. GLAAD ($225) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) Witness the poetic activists of the 21st century. Listen to revolutionary women pick up the mic and express their raw power. Spoken Word Artists include Denice Frohman, Marian Yalini, Charan Morris and Renair Amin. Sirens include Ms. Chaney Sims and Ms. Crystal Hall. The magical Emcee for the evening is the talented and gifted Ashley Brockington. ($10 General Admission; $20 VIP (Open Bar)) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(Chelsea Art Museum, 556 West 22nd Street, New York, NY 10011) (08.00 p.m.) The "Native Lands" CD features performances with Pharaoh Sanders, Marcus Miller, Nana Vasconcelos, Stanley Jordan, Wallace Roney, Buster Williams, and more. The DVD features visual/audio research of Calhoun's rhythmic, cultural, and musical research in Africa, South and Central America, and the Outback of Australia. ($15, $10(students) Members Free) Event Website

(268 Wesr 47th St @ 8th Ave) Combining the energy and glamour of a world-class nightclub with the spectacle and illusion of the theater, Purgatorio will offer an interactive Halloween experience unlike anything seen before in New York nightlife. Adults 21 and over will be immersed in a multi-level world of macabre fantasy complete with interactive variety acts and installations, all set in a dynamic environment that is at once frightening, erotic and whimsical. There’s nothing typical about this nightclub. Dance, drink, and party with the undead at Purgatorio and see what indulgences await you on the other side. ($39.99+) Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (6:30pm) Whether you're training for the 40th New York City Marathon on November 1 or cheering the runners on, don’t miss this rare opportunity to go behind the scenes with legendary athletes Joan Benoit Samuelson, running this race 25 years after her historic Olympic gold medal; Grete Waitz, winner of a record nine New York City Marathons; and surprise guests, in conversation with Times Well columnist, Tara Parker-Pope, running her first marathon this year. ($30) Event Website

(Mary Lea Johnson Performing Arts Center, 433 West End Avenue, New York, NY 10024) (7pm) This is a documentary about the life of Robert Eads, a 52-year-old female to male transsexual who lives in the back hills of Georgia. Even though Robert is dying from ovarian cancer, over two-dozen doctors refuse to treat him. He finds support--and unexpectedly, the love of his life--in Lola Cola, a male-to-female transsexual. Together, they pursue his dream to make it to the Southern Comfort Conference in Atlanta, the country’s pre-eminent transgender gathering. Winner of the Grand Jury prize at Sundance in 2001, the New York Times described the film as, “A great story. Fascinating.” ($5/students & seniors, $10/adults) (212-497-6528) Event Website

(The Element/Bank Building, 225 East Houston St @ Essex St/Ave A, New York, NY 10002) (10pm - 4am) The NYC band "Imbolg" to play , The live Human marvel act of "The Lady "Aye" {sword swallowing/bed of nails/ and many other exciting fascinations}, partying,mingling. Special Guests include: Fetish photographer Efrain Gonzales, (Pepper Negron and his dark arts and film works), DJ Krieg and Guest DJ Stalag-Mike spinning your favorite dark music all night, Custom Vampire Fangs By the W.A.S.P.(made on site). and Hosted by Lady Victoria. Costume contest. Door prizes. Dress code: Vampire, fetish, dark styles, all black, masks. ($30 at the door, $25 in advance) Event Website

(Mehanata Bulgarian Bar, 113 Ludlow btwn Rivington & Delancey Sts, New York, NY 10002) (8pm) Hosted by Rev. Jen (as mighty Isis!) and featuring: music by Flaming Fire and Larkin Grimman; Aztec "Sacrifice" by the very sexy Duchess Wendi; burlesque by N of Hypergender; Burlesque performance by Master Lee; Modern Dance piece by Choreographer Rob Davidson and DJ Charles Gaskins from garagepunk.com; tarot readings by Lilith Dorsey; nymph go-go dancers; a "Hot God" contest, and more! ($10 w/o costume, $7 with) Event Website

(City Center, 131 West 55th St, New York, NY 10019) New York City Center presents the third annual season of Morphoses/The Wheeldon Company, celebrating the centenary of the Ballets Russes. Highlights include two U.S. premieres – a new ballet by Artistic Director Christopher Wheeldon, co-commissioned by New York City Center and Sadler’s Wells Theatre, London, and a new work by Australian choreographer Tim Harbour, commissioned by Morphoses, as well as repertoire by Lightfoot León, Alexei Ratmansky and Mr. Wheeldon. The engagement will feature live music performed by the Philharmonic Orchestra of the Americas, with opening night conducted by the orchestra’s founder and music director, Alondra de la Parra. ($15, $25, $60, $85, $110) Event Website

(Voorhees Theatre, 186 Jay St, Downtown Brooklyn, NY 11201) Theatreworks' high-tech haunted hotel, the Gravesend Inn, returns again this year. Produced by Theatreworks, City Tech's resident theatrical troupe with design, construction, and operating support provided by students and faculty of the College’s nationally unique Entertainment Technology Department, this theme-park-quality Halloween attraction has been thrilling children and adults alike since 1999. ($6 for adults; $4 for students (with ID)) Event Website

(Madame Tussauds, 234 West 42nd St btwn 7 & 8th Aves, Times Square, New York, NY 10036) (9pm -1am) What dark secrets lurk in the depths of the world-famous wax museum? Our history tells of a dark side that few care to revisit. During the French Revolution, Madame Tussaud was forced to dig through piles of executed noble’s bodies, creating death masks of famous victims and collecting gruesome artifacts for her travelling Chamber of Horrors like the guillotine blade that beheaded Marie Antoinette. This Halloween, we’ll take you where you’ve always been afraid to go and show you that it’s not all glamour and celebrities. ($20) Event Website

(Sanford Meisner Theater, 164 11th Ave btwn 22 & 23rd Sts, New York, NY 10011) Warning: Haunted House is an intense interactive experience that lasts approximately 15 minutes per person. You don't just walk through it - you live it. And yes, you will be touched. ($12+) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm -10pm) Meet other right brained, creative souls. Artists, actors, writers etc. Ice-breaker, speed dating, group conversations, & fun "secret" ingredients. Find men with similar views, tastes, values. Refreshment/mingling break. Structured. Find compatible matches. Exchange numbers. Call to register 212-989-8549 (Earlybird online $25 door) (212-989-8549) Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (See website fir schedule) An urban retreat of culture, creativity, and community for GLBT Jews, partners, and allies. This is a Shabbaton like you’ve never experienced before, featuring: ($185) Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (F @ noon/S&S @ 10AM) A three day festival devoted entirely to chocolate--is guaranteed to give eager appetites a head start on the season of holiday merrymaking. Designed for the public, the event allows visitors to discover all there is to know about, taste, and explore in the world of chocolate. ($30) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Dia De Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) celebrates the life and memory of our ancestors and loved ones who have passed away. This ritual has been observed by indigenous cultures and Latinas\os for over 3000 years. The holiday focuses on gatherings of family and friends to celebrate and remember friends and relatives who have died. Traditions include building private altars honoring the deceased, and offering sugar skulls, marigolds, and the favorite foods and beverages of the departed. In this spirit, The Center will create an alter to honor the memory of the members of our community who worked tirelessly to empower and transform our community. The Center would like to invite you to participate in this event by helping to decorate the alter with flowers, candles, sugar skulls or by bringing the favorite beverage or food of a family member or friend who has passed away. (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) Join the Center as we celebrate Latina Filmmakers. In Back to Life is about a woman who grieves the death of her girlfriend only after experiencing the vulnerability of sleeping with her best friend. This evening of cinema will include three other short films directed by emerging Latina Filmmakers. A talk back will be held following the shorts. ($10 at the door, $8 online) Event Website

(DeSalvio Park in Little Italy at the corner of Mulberry & Spring Sts) (12 - 5pm) Green Halloween is a national movement that promotes the creative and community aspects of Halloween while suggesting alternatives to processed sugar candies at a time of epidemic childhood obesity and diabetes. Keeping with that spirit, Green Halloween Bazaar will bring together numerous NYC artists, fashion stylists and costumers to form an alternative Halloween season culture. Various high-end "freaky" fashion designers and set-costume makers will provide items for display, purchase, or rental. A portion of all proceeds will be donated to Green Halloween NYC. The costumes will be presented as part of the newest exhibit at Gallery 151 curated by Jennifer Harris. For this two week exhibit, Ms. Harris has selected a collection of sculptures, photographs and other mixed media that address nature's response to humanity's frequent attack. Artists: Doctor Adventure, Kae Burke, Laura Clarke, Elaine Dinowitz, Larisa Fuchs (Gemini & Scorpio), Christopher Hardwick, Tara McManus, KaytiBunny Roberts, Anya Sapozhnikova, Francis Stallings, James Vogel, Wheylan. In addition to the exhibit, there is also a program of community events: scary movies nights, costume workshops, and more. (FREE) Event Website

(Theater for the New City, 155 First Ave, New York, NY 10003) (7:30 - 2am) Nonstop theater, a costume competition and ballroom dancing will bewitch the East Village! This unique festival continues as a grand coming-together for everyday New Yorkers and artists alike. The one-night fiesta takes over all four of Theatre for the New City theater spaces, plus its lobby and the block of East Tenth Street between First and Second Avenues. Over 1,400 wildly-clad celebrants gather for dancing, dining, showing off costumes and viewing acts from the cutting-edge of Cabaret and Theater. Big-Band Dance orchestras take over the large Johnson Theater. These will include Maquina Mono, Hot Lavendar Swing Band, an all-Gay and Lesbian 18-piece orchestra, and New York Flaggers. With its Witches' Cauldron, the event can justifiably claim to have downtown's most sensational Halloween cafe. The Community Theater of TNC becomes an atmospheric grande buffet for the event, with a variety of American and international delicacies available at peoples' prices. Holiday dishes are contributed by neighboring East Village restaurants, some with celebrity chefs. COSTUME PARADE AND CONTEST BEGINS AT MIDNIGHT! ($20; costume or formal wear is required) (212-254-1109) Event Website

(Merchants House, 29 East 4th St, New York, NY 10003) (12 - 5pm (30 minute tours begin every 20 minutes)) Celebrate Halloween at a ‘real’ haunted house. Tours of the Museum’s exhibition about 19th-century death and mourning are just spooky enough – then come downstairs for hot cider, creep cakes, lady fingers, and ‘spirited’ 19th-century activities. Recommended for ages 7-12. ($10) Event Website

(Merchants House, 29 East 4th St, New York, NY 10003) (7 & 9pm) Official Merchant’s House ghost-storyteller Anthony Bellov will read selections from 19th-century horror classics, and recount highlights from his ongoing research into the strange and supernatural occurrences at the Merchant’s House Museum – in a parlor arranged for a mid-19th century funeral! 60 minutes Readings. ($25, MHM Members $15) Event Website

(Dance Chelsea Studios, 115 West 27th St, New York, NY 10001) (9pm - 1am) ($15/$20) Event Website

(American Museum of Natural History, 175 Central Park West, New York, NY 10023) (2-5PM) Trick or treat in warmth and safety among the “dangerous” dinosaurs, “eerie” elephants, and “other-worldly” planets. Kids’ favorite characters will wander the halls greeting and entertaining. “Spooky” arts and crafts keep little hands busy, and live performances punctuate the proceedings. ($10) Event Website

(Theater for the New City, 155 First Ave, New York, NY 10003) (Outdoor entertainment 3:00 pm to 7:00 pm; doors op) Nonstop theater, a costume competition and ballroom dancing will bewitch the East Village in this one-night fiesta that takes over all four of TNC's theater spaces, plus its lobby and the block of East Tenth Street between First and Second Avenues. Customarily over 1,400 wildly-clad celebrants gather for dancing, dining, showing off costumes and viewing acts from the cutting-edge of Cabaret and Theater. Costume or formal wear required. ($20; costume or formal wear required) (212- 254-1109) Event Website

(Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Pkwy, Brooklyn, NY 11238) (Panel: 2 - 4pm; Film & Discussion: 4 - 5:45) In conjunction with Who Shot Rock & Roll: A Photographic History, 1955 to the Present, a distinguished panel examines the impact of sexism on the image and role of women in rock and roll over the past thirty years; the effect of feminism on the rock scene; and what lies ahead for women’s participation in all aspects of rock music. Music journalist Vivien Goldman moderates a discussion with photographers Kate Simon and Jill Furmanovsky, musician Tamar-kali, and editor and musician Ingrid Dahl. Film and Discussion: A rare screening of Anything Boys Can Do (Ethan Minsker, 1997). The film documents the experiences of women in New York City’s underground rock scene in the 1990s, combining live-show footage with interviews of band members and fans. A question-and-answer session with filmmaker Ethan Minsker, facilitated by Michelle Halabura, follows. Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm) DJs Gustavo & Rich King (SNAXX) will be there to help us spin the night away! To add special flare to this evenings dance the Imperial Court are our hosts. ($10 at the door, $8 online) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(Big Apple Ranch, 39 West 19th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm) Trick or treat at Big Apple Ranch’s Halloween Hoedown. You're encouraged to wear a costume, but we’re all about footwork on the dance floor. Contact: Susanna Stein. Proceeds benefit New York City's accessible, gay-friendly freestyle wrestling club for adults, Metro Wrestling. (917-974-3401) [email protected] Event Website

(Check website for details) (9PM-9AM) A marvellous and mysterious event...a Halloween celebration of the extravagant and the grotesque...a 12-hour spectacle of atmosphere, costumery and diverse entertainments...an explosion of live music, dancing, circus arts, fire, and late-night revelry, snake-charmed into an absinthe-fueled early-morning speakeasy. And for the daring few: A loft lounge with absinthe and other mind-altering potions by The House of St Eve Event Website

(6th Ave from Spring St to 21st St) (7PM) Join hundreds of Puppets, 53 Bands of Different Types of Music, Dancers and Artists, and thousands of other New Yorkers in costumes of their own creation in the Nation’s most wildly creative public participatory event in the Greatest City in the World. (FREE) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (4:15 PM) S.V.A. presents its annual "Gay History Month" meeting and forum. This year is memorable as the 40th anniversary of the Stonewall Rebellion. U.S. Congressmember Yvette D. Clarke is the special guest. She will provide what's happening for Gay rights in Congress including the congressional approval of a national Gay Hate Crimes bill and updates on ending "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" in the U.S. military. Since it is Halloween, you are welcomed to "dress-up" and join the SVA members and guests who will partake in the Greenwich Village Halloween Parade, lining-up immediately afte ($2 (for The Center)) ((212) 627-1969) [email protected] Event Website

(Runs thru all 5 Boroughs) The premier event of New York Road Runners, the ING New York City Marathon is one of the world's great road races, drawing more than 100,000 applicants. The race attracts many world-class professional athletes, not only for the more than $600,000 in prize money, but also for the chance to excel in the media capital of the world before two million cheering spectators and 315 million worldwide television viewers. As any one of the more than 700,000 past participants will attest, crossing the finish line in Central Park is one of the great thrills of a lifetime. Event Website