November 2009

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (See website fir schedule) An urban retreat of culture, creativity, and community for GLBT Jews, partners, and allies. This is a Shabbaton like you’ve never experienced before, featuring: ($185) Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (F @ noon/S&S @ 10AM) A three day festival devoted entirely to chocolate--is guaranteed to give eager appetites a head start on the season of holiday merrymaking. Designed for the public, the event allows visitors to discover all there is to know about, taste, and explore in the world of chocolate. ($30) Event Website

(The Crowne Theater in the Producer's Club, 358 West 44th St., New York, NY 10036) (8pm) Newlyweds, Jack and Emily arrive at her father’s summer cottage for their honeymoon, only to find nothing is as it seems. After a visit from Jack’s ex-girlfriend who had followed them there, she is found outside, dead. The local Sheriff, a New York detective, and the famous mystery author who lives next door try to solve the mystery. After many arrests, including the bride and finally her father, the mystery turns out to be a humorous storm in a teacup. ($18) (917-438-9223) [email protected] Event Website

(Runs thru all 5 Boroughs) The premier event of New York Road Runners, the ING New York City Marathon is one of the world's great road races, drawing more than 100,000 applicants. The race attracts many world-class professional athletes, not only for the more than $600,000 in prize money, but also for the chance to excel in the media capital of the world before two million cheering spectators and 315 million worldwide television viewers. As any one of the more than 700,000 past participants will attest, crossing the finish line in Central Park is one of the great thrills of a lifetime. Event Website

(City Center, 131 West 55th St, New York, NY 10019) New York City Center presents the third annual season of Morphoses/The Wheeldon Company, celebrating the centenary of the Ballets Russes. Highlights include two U.S. premieres – a new ballet by Artistic Director Christopher Wheeldon, co-commissioned by New York City Center and Sadler’s Wells Theatre, London, and a new work by Australian choreographer Tim Harbour, commissioned by Morphoses, as well as repertoire by Lightfoot León, Alexei Ratmansky and Mr. Wheeldon. The engagement will feature live music performed by the Philharmonic Orchestra of the Americas, with opening night conducted by the orchestra’s founder and music director, Alondra de la Parra. ($15, $25, $60, $85, $110) Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (6 - 11pm) HONORING Kate Clinton, Dr. Herb Cohen, James C. Hormel and Christine Quinn. Hosted by Tony Award winner Denis O'Hare. To benefit SAGE. ($400+) Event Website

(The Four Seasons Restaurant, The Pool Room Terrace, 99 East 52nd St, New York, NY 10154) (7:30) Chandler BurrThe Young Leaders Council is pleased to invite you to attend a Private Six Course Dinner & Master-Class in Scent with Chandler Burr to Benefit the LGBT Community Center. Working with the master chefs at the iconic Four Seasons Restaurant, Chandler Burr, the New York Times scent critic, will host an interactive master-class in scent, pairing the scents of les parfums gourmands -- the great culinary-based perfumes and their raw elements -- with a world-class six course dinner. Each course echoes a scent chosen by Chandler: elements of vanilla, cinnamon, bergemont -- as well as synthetic elements used by perfumers to mimic bread, salt, smoke flavors -- even cotton candy. This extraordinary, interactive experience is a fascinating journey that takes attendees through the history and artistry of perfume and brings a new appreciation for the link between scent and taste. ($375) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) Tonight Dobkin chronicles her rise to fame as the first artist to record an openly lesbian album in 1973 in her new book, “My Red Blood: A Memoir of Growing Up Communist, Coming Onto the Greenwich Village Folk Scene, and Coming Out in the Feminist Movement. My Red Blood opens in post-war New York City where, growing up in a Communist family, Dobkin watches Jackie Robinson steal home, rubs elbows with radical left celebrities like Paul Robeson, and comes of age under the watchful eye of the FBI. It’s only after she arrives on the burgeoning folk music scene of Greenwich Village, where she meets the up-and-coming Bob Dylan, Bill Cosby, John Sebastian, Buffy Ste. Marie, and Flip Wilson, among many other rising luminaries, that she achieves her first acclaim as a singer-songwriter. Rich in period detail, storytelling, and outspoken politics, My Red Blood is essential reading for lovers of music and history. ($10) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(Roy Arias Theater, 300 W. 43rd St., 5th Fl (@ 8th Ave.), New York, NY 10036) (7pm show & 9pm show) A light comedy with dance, rap, and a homicidal robot. soloplay written & performed by Aldo Pisano directed by Robert Perillo. A robot from outer space come to Earth and produces a reality TV show. But this robot is really on a secret mission to judge humanity and if humans fail the test, he'll exterminate man. The robot observes 6 people from the Bronx projects who will represent humanity. Will man survive? Is the apocalypse coming? What is the robot's final answer? Watch and find out. ($10.00) (818-754-1423) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) If you're wanting to make a career change, Susanne Rhow will help you gear up for a New Year transition. One of the most popular events in OP's history returns this fall. Career Boot Camp, presented with the Five O'Clock Club, will turbo-charge your work life, whether you're just starting out or making mid-life moves. (Nonmembers, $10. OP Members, just $5.) Event Website

(Various Locations) The latest and greatest sensations of laughter from the worlds of stand-up, TV, radio and youtube! Event Website

(Educational Alliance Theater, 197 East Broadway, New York, NY 10002) (6pm) Downtown artist and 30-year veteran of performance art Pat Oleszko makes a spectacle of herself — and doesn't mind if you laugh. Oleszko will discuss her work including performance and costume, show a film of a performance and lead a lively dialogue about art and performance. Known as the Ms. Tricks of Dis Guise, she has a large body — of work — which includes many Unnatural Acts. (FREE) (646-395-4236) [email protected] Event Website

(Good Shepherd United Methodist Church, 30-44 Crescent St, Astoria, New York, NY 11102) (2pm (Saturdays) and 8pm (Thursdays, Fridays, Satur) With echoes of Stoppard, Kafka, and the Brothers Grimm, The Pillowman is a dark comedy about the interrogation of a fiction writer, in an unnamed totalitarian state, whose gruesome short stories have eerie similarities to local horrific child murders. The result is an urgent work of theatrical bravura and an unflinching examination of the very nature and purpose of art. ($15 in advance, $18 at the door) (866-811-4111) Event Website

(Workshop Main Stage Theatre, 312 West 36th Street, 4th Floor, New York, New York, NY 10018) (Wed-Fri at 8pm; Sat at 2pm and 8pm; Sun at 2pm) Their hearts and minds torn by fear, pain and grief, two young American officers in Vietnam have lost faith in themselves, their families, their country and their God. When they meet in Penang in a brief respite from the Mekong Delta, they learn what every soldier comes to know: In war, the only thing that truly matters is the guy next to you. But is this truth enough to save them? Advisory: Penang contains full frontal nudity. ($18.00) Event Website

(TBG Theatre, 312 West 36th St, New York, NY 10018) (8PM & 2PM) Kelly Samara's One-Woman Show. An exhilarating solo turn by Samara who plays a hospital patient walking a most thin line between reality and fantasy. Her lucid moments tainted by her dependency on pain killers are juxtaposed against flights of fantasy fueled by dance, disco balls and driving music. ($18) Event Website

(The Helen Mills Theatre, 137-139 West 26th St, New York, NY 10001) (6pm) Celebrate the intersection of advocacy, art, community, and spirit through a riveting program, an exhibition & silent auction from contemporary artists, live music, and a unique opportunity to connect with social entrepreneurs, investors, civic minded leaders in business, finance and law, members of the judiciary, and community advocates. Honoring: The Honorable Tom Duane, Senator (NY); Weil, Gotshal & Manges LLP; Heidemarie Kramer, PHD. M.D.; and Horacio Marrero. Special Recognition: Terry McGovern, Advocate, Founder, HIV Law Project, Program Officer, Ford Foundation RSVP required. ($150+) (212-577-3001 x231) Event Website

(Magnet Theater, 254 West 29th Street, New York, NY 10001) (Check website fpor details) This challenging form of improvisation puts top musicians, singers, actors, comedians and even dancers through their paces, challenging them to create music, lyrics, and movement on the spot. Audiences have responded to the excitement and urgency of seeing these exceptionally talented singers and musicians creating something amazing - from scratch. This festival will celebrate a broad range of styles and bring together performers from top comedy theaters, ($10/15) Event Website

(Various Locations in Hell's Kitchen) Around 100 locations, many more artists & performers will open their homes, galleries, and studios for a self guided tour. Participating artists include individuals with well established and honored careers, as well as emerging artists, and all mediums will be represented. Printed versions of maps will be available at participating artists studios and businesses. All are welcome to the complimentary opening & closing artist parties. (FREE) Event Website

(Pier 60, 23rd St & the Hudson River, New York, NY 10011) (7 PM) Inspired by a women's gala at Clinton's presidential inauguration, the Center hosted its first Women's Event gala dinner and dance at the Hammerstein Ballroom in 1998. The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center is thrilled to invite you to celebrate our 12th annual. An evening with cocktails, dining, fabulous silent auction items, dancing and more at our annual gala and premier women's celebration. l The Center ($300 +) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00 PM) At this Speed-Dating event, meet lots of guys ages 30s & 40s one-on-one for a series of 3-minute dates, then get a free mingling period to meet anyone else in the room. Tell us which men you want a second date with, and minutes later you find out your matches. This is a great opportunity to meet guys for time-efficient face-to-face contact and see what kind of chemistry is there. It’s a lot of fun and could lead to meeting someone special! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00pm-10:30pm) Oblivion Productions is holding a special NYC Reading of the new gay themed screenplay Amongst The Living. When Paranormal Psychologist Michael Hutchinson returns to his hometown to attend the funeral of a childhood friend, he finds that the demons of his past are very much alive and kicking. For a man who spends most of his life amongst the dead. the real demons are those awaiting him amongst the living. Following the reading will be a Q&A, and an after celebration. Portions of the proceeds will go to God's Love We Deliver, a local NYC charity ($20 ($5 goes to God's Love We Deliver)) (215-680-6336)

(New York Law School, 185 West Broadway, New York, NY 10013) (9am - 6pm) The LeGaL Foundation’s (LGBT Law Association Foundation of Greater New York) annual law conference, hosted and co-sponsored by the Stonewall Law Students Association of New York Law School. (212-353-9118) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) In conversation with NY Times book editor Billy Goldstein. Jane Lynch is a seasoned versatile writer, actress, comedian and singer. She is currently successfully starring with rave reviews in the Fox comedy Glee as aggressive cheerleader coach Sue, and was a series regular on the new series on Starz Comedy, Party Down. She will be joining the cast of Nora Ephron’s Love, Loss, and What I Wore playing here in NYC for 12 weeks this Fall. (General: $35; Center Members: $25; VIP Seating & Reception with Ms. Lynch: $75 (Limited to 75)) Event Website

(W New York, 541 Lexington Ave btwn 49 & 50th Sts, New York, NY 10022) (6PM) Each year, AVP presents the Courage Awards, highlighting significant contributions of members of our community and allies, whose thoughtful and meaningful work inspires us. This year’s we will be honoring the Pulitzer-winning playwright Tony Kushner, the law firm Clifford Chance, and Weblogs, Pam's House Blend, The Bilerico Project, Towleroad and Joe.My.God. NYC Anti-Violence Project (Ticket prices vary; start at $250) (212-714-1184) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Monday, November 9, 2009 6:00PM - 8:00PM Cuban-born author Christian de la Huerta ("Coming Out Spiritually") views the LGBT community as particularly prepared to bring about a spiritual change in society. Once, de la Huerta declares, "People we now call gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered, or simply queer were actually revered for their roles of spiritual leadership. We were the shamans, the healers, the visionaries, the mediators, the peacekeepers, the keepers of beauty, the 'people who walk between the worlds.' Now, with our status as outsiders, comes the responsibility to test waters and stretch limits." (Nonmembers, $10. OP Members, just $5.) Event Website

(Comix, 353 west 14th street, New York, NY 10014) (6:30 PM) A one-night-only performance with extraordinary comedian Karen Williams in honor of Astraea's Lynn Campbell Memorial Fund. Whether as an organizer of the first Take Back the Night, or through her work with the Funding Exchange, or as co-founder of Funders for Lesbian & Gay Issues -- Lynn's legacy serves a reminder to us that justice is sweet, and worth the fight. Let's share and locate those essential moments of joy, humor and activism together. Astraea Foundation ($60+) Event Website

(Cipriani’s, 200 Fifth Ave at 23rd St, New York, NY 10010) (6PM) An opportunity for friends of Hetrick-Martin to come together with new supporters and honor those individuals and corporations who mirror Hetrick-Martin’s mission and have truly shown a dedication to LGBTQ youth and to understanding the challenges this group faces daily. This year, we are celebrating 30 years as the nation's oldest and largest nonprofit agency serving LGBTQ youth. Hetrick-Martin ($500+) Event Website

(The Lion Theatre at Theatre Row, 410 West 42nd Street, New York, NY 10036) (7:00PM) Loaded centers on Jude and Patrick, two men exploring whether or not their casual sexual relationship has the potential to be something more. When the generation that separates them sparks a series of misunderstandings and assumptions, their connection is strained and the conversation turns serious. Loaded taps into the climate of 21st century gay culture as it seeks to make sense of the bewildering chasm that separates middle-aged and younger gay men. New York LGBT Center ($35 - VIP with open bar / $25 - General admission) Event Website

(The National Underground, 159 E Houston Street, between Eldridge St and Allen St, New York, NY 10040) (7:00 pm) Tanya True will be rocking out her heart, voice and guitar . Her vocal range is off the charts, her songs are deeply moving, and she is really great with her audiences. Lot's of laughing takes place. For a total ROCKING package, check out Tanya True. Be at the show and arrive early. You've gotta see this. You've gotta hear this. You've gotta feel this. ($10) (212-542-0892) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6PM) Hosting this evening are Continental Airlines' Geralyn Stevens, manager of sales development; and Matthew Link, the former editorial director of Out Traveler magazine and now editor-in-chief of the new website OffRamp101.com. The evening's panel features Paul Gauger, the director of media relations for the Americas for VisitBritain. Giving the Nordic insight is Harald Hansen, the openly gay public relations manager for Innovation Norway - Tourism. ($5/15) Event Website

(Various Locations) Classical, fusion, folk and innovative forms influenced by the arts of India. There are a number of queer film on the schedule this year. Event Website

(St. Peter's Church, 346 West 20th St, New York, NY 10011) (Th/Fr 7:30pm, Sa/Su 4:00pm) The setting of this production will be “updated” and emphasizes the story’s relevance to today’s world. The Mother is still a poor, single mom who just lost her job, and Amahl is her disabled son. No longer found in a Biblical locale, however, they now live in a small, one-room apartment somewhere in a NYC neighborhood. The “VIP” Night Visitors are present in their usual fantastic regalia, but are here on an peace mission. When we see them enter the Mother’s apartment, we are led to wonder if they are “real” or the result of Amahl’s amazingly inventive imagination. ($25 GA, $25 Sr./Std ($30, $20 at the door)) (212-260-1796) [email protected] Event Website

(Holy Apostles, 296 Ninth Avenue, New York, NY 10011, 212-807-6799, Venue Website) (7PM) Isle of Klezbos performs for the 36th Anniversary of Congregation Beth Simchat Torah, synagogue for NYC’s LGBT Jews, family & friends. CBST was founded by visionaries from the liberating West Village in 1973. Festive numerology illustrates why this year calls for a special show: Number 36 =2x lucky 18! (The word for Life =Chai; & the letters spelling that word, whether Yiddish or Hebrew alphabet, add up to eighteen.) So this is an extra-auspicious time. "Isle of Klezbos sextet plays CBST Double Chai" is made possible in part with public funds funds from the Fund for Creative Communities, supported by the New York State Council on the Arts, administered by Lower Manhatt ($10.) (212-929-9498x10) [email protected] Event Website

(JCC of Manhattan; photo ID required, Amsterdam Avenue at 76th Street, New York, NY 10023) (See website for schedule) Third annual week-long festival of award winning Israeli films, guest filmmakers, panel discussions, special gala events, exhibits, musical performances and much more. Other Israel illuminates the lives of the Arab citizens of Israel, who make up 20% of Israel's population, celebrating Israel's democracy and highlighting the different ethnic, cultural and social backgrounds of this diverse landscape. Event Website

(The Midtown Executive Club, 40 West 45th St, New York, NY 10036) (8 - 10:30am) At this panel discussion/webinar, you will hear how the viral power of social networking and email marketing can multiply your customer base and expand your personal brand. Not only will you learn why social media is worth the effort, but how to put an action plan into place so you don’t squander precious time. Panelists: Amy Dean, Dean Public Relations; Janet Handal, President Handal Associates; Jeannette Paladino, Writer-in-Chief of Write Speak Sell; Wendi Caplan-Carroll, Regional Development Director for Constant Contact and an Email Marketing Expert. You can attend in person or via webinar. Presented by MCC LGBT Committee Event Website

(Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington, NY 11743) Bringing Long Island a unique cultural event every year which showcases LGBT experiences in cinema. Event Website

(On the High Line in the 14th St Passage) (7pm) Acclaimed avant-garde ensemble Text of Light—composer and saxophonist Ulrich Krieger, guitarist and composer Alan Licht, turntablist and visual artist Christian Marclay, and Sonic Youth co-founder Lee Ranaldo—presents a live musical score to Berlin: Symphony of a Great City (Walter Ruttman, 1927), a feature-length “city symphony” film that captures urban life through a vibrant mix of documentary footage, abstract visual compositions, and impressionistic montage techniques. Text of Light’s loosely structured improvisational score will feature the remarkable intonarumori (Futurist noise machines), among many other instruments. The live performance to Berlin will be preceded by a screening of the short film Manhatta (Charles Sheeler and Paul Strand, 1921), another city symphony that depicts a day in New York City. (Non-members: $15; Performa and Friends of High Line Members: $12) Event Website

(West Chelsea Arts Building, 526 West 26th St. (10th & 11th Ave.), New York, NY 10001) (1:00 PM - 3:30 PM) Visit 7 exhibits of cutting-edge painting, sculpture, electronic media & photography, some by gay & lesbian artists and others of interest to a queer sensibility, led by a former gay studies professor and art critic for the New York Blade. While you’re there, socialize with arts-oriented gay men & lesbians! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm) It’s that time of year again and the bears are out in full force. Don’t miss one of the cities hottest Bear events. 800 fun-loving bears, where else would you be. ($10 at the door, $8 online) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (3 - 8pm) We want You to help stimulate the economy! Since GMSMA's Leatherfest is on hiatus this year, the New York boys of Leather (NYboL), Lesbian Sex Mafia (LSM), and The Eulnespiegel Society (TES) have come together for a special celebration of all things Leather and Fetish. Featuring: vendors, artists, demos, panels, community groups, Leather Pride Night Flea Market, socializing with loads of your favorite leatherfolk, and much, much more! Come get stimulated! [email protected] Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (5pm) Since 2002, GLAAD has produced this annual fundraising art event, OUTAuction NYC. Part glamorous cocktail party, part art auction, OUTAuction celebrates established and emerging artists and recognizes GLAAD’s Top 100 Artists. GLAAD will feature a live and silent auction with 100 original pieces of art. Participating artists have included: Pablo Picasso, Marc Chagall, Herb Ritts, Ross Bleckner, Steven Klein, Ryan McGinness, among other. Vanessa Williams is on this year’s Honorary Committee and Ross Bleckner has agreed to accept our OUT In Art award that will be given on the night of OUTAuction. Also a well known celebrity will be designing a one of a kind t-shirt, which will be sold at the event. (Tickets start at $125) (646.871.8003) [email protected] Event Website

(Peter Norton Symphony Space, 2537 Broadway at 95th St, New York, NY 10025) (8:00 pm) Founded in 1979, the Lesbian & Gay Big Apple Corps Symphonic Band joyously observes their anniversary with “Generations: a 30-Year Celebration.” Featured on the program will be Respighi’s The Pines of Rome and Shostakovich’s Festive Overture, as well as such familiar musical favorites as selections from La Cage Aux Folles and West Side Story, Over the Rainbow, Sousa’s The Thunderer and the Bacchanale from Saint-Saens’ Samson and Delilah. Highlighting this festive evening will be the world premiere of Allegro Scherzando: A Celebration for Piano and Concert Band, composed by James Adler, with Mr. Adler as guest soloist. ($25/$18 advanced/$15 students, seniors) (212 591 2886) [email protected] Event Website

(Espace, 635 West 42nd St, New York, NY 10036) (6PM) Hosted by Bryan Batt of Mad Men honoring three outstanding leaders who have had a dramatic impact on the health and well-being of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities.They are Antonio E. Urbina, M.D., Medical Director of HIV/AIDS Education and Training at Saint Vincent's Comprehensive HIV Center, The Congressional LGBT Equality Caucus of the United States House of Representatives and The New York State Health Foundation for its efforts to improve the healthcare available to New Yorkers. Callen Lorde Health Center ($300+) Event Website

(Public Assembly, 70 N. 6th St., Brooklyn, NY 11211) (10 PM) A cast of blindingly fabulous, brilliantly beautiful and remarkably absurd burlesque dancers, lounge singers and downtown artstars will pay homage to some of the greatest films of our generation, as Sweet and Nasty Burlesque presents THERE WILL BE BOOBS: a striptease salute to PT Anderson. ($10) [email protected] Event Website

(Metropolitan Pavilion, 125 West 18th St, New York, NY 10011) (7pm) GMHC launched Fashion Forward in 2007 to salute the fashion industry's longstanding commitment to fighting HIV and AIDS. From the earliest days of the epidemic, the fashion community has been on the front lines, using its creativity, visibility and compassion to raise public awareness and galvanize fundraising efforts to support GMHC's lifesaving services. The evening will include a cocktail reception with silent auction, followed by a runway show. To benefit GMHC. ($100+) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) The Center is thrilled to announce the appearance of Xavier Hollander author of the legendary autobiography, The Happy Hooker. Ms. Hollander’s appearance at the Center will include a screening of her documentary The Happy Hooker: Portrait of a Sexual Revolutionary followed by a discussion of the film and her life. Ms. Hollander will take questions from the audience. ($10 (includes reception and refreshments)) (212-620-7310) [email protected] Event Website

(Merkin Concert Hall, 129 West 67th Street, New York, NY 10023) (8 PM) Sylvia McNair, Jason Graae and Mary Testa join Steven Blier in celebrating legendary collaborators: The Gershwins, Kander and Ebb, Bolcom and Weinstein, Dietz and Schwartz, Lerner and Loewe and many more. Classics and rarely-done and undiscovered song gems. ($40 to $55, with $15 student tickets) (212-501-3330) [email protected] Event Website

(Metropolitan Room, 34 West 22nd St, New York, NY 10010) (7PM) "The More The Merrier Duets & More", a special evening of her multi MAC Award-winning variety show Rod, Nicky & Brian from “Avenue Q”, performing an original number written by James Darrah. David Buskin & Robin Batteau; the upbeat and dynamic, Backstage Bistro award-winning group, Uptown Express; cabaret performer and sultry jazz vocalist, Eddie Bruce & Laura Munich; Backstage Bistro and MAC award-winning performer, Scott Coulter; London stage star (“City of Angels” and “Phantom”) Andrew Halliday; and husband and wife Broadway duo Liz Larsen & Sal Viviano. ($30 + two drinks) Event Website

(The MIX Factory, 125 West 21st St, New York, NY 10010) MIX grew out of a desire to bridge several different communities – experimental film and LGBT subculture, for two. Works have varying relationships with local and global communities and with activist and artistic projects. Event Website

(HK Lounge, 405 W 39th Street, (the entrance is on 39th street just west of Ninth Avenue), New York, NY 10018) (7PM) IN THE MIX with Joe Mode, a monthly afterwork mixer, produced and hosted by WayOutEvents featuring specialty Grey Goose Vodka cocktails, live performances by 2009 Glammy Award Nominee and 2009 Village Voice’s Best Of: Most Underrated Drag Queen, Britney Houston and tunes by DJ Lina. Jesse Archer of “Slutty Summer” and “Four Letter Word” will be in attendance as our celebrity guest host. In the spirit of the holiday season and charitable giving. (One Canned Good Food Item / $2.00) (347-750-6251) [email protected] Event Website

(Pieces, 8 Christopher Street, New York, NY 10014) (8PM & 2PM) The ladies (and the men) will be out in force tonight as we debut a special “Lesbian P0rno Bingo” night where we’ll feature erotica aimed at both men AND women! Featuring special guest star Colin Steele and Lesbian activist Sarah Jenny Bleviss with special additional sponsorship prizes by Babeland and Spread Magazine! New York City Anti-Violence Project Event Website

(Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Pkwy, Brooklyn, NY 11238) (11am - 2:30pm) The Brooklyn Museum honors renowned artist Kiki Smith at its seventh annual Women in the Arts award ceremony. The program includes a lively discussion with the artist, the award presentation by Museum Director Arnold L. Lehman, and a reception and luncheon in the Museum’s Beaux-Arts Court.

(Rubin Museum of Art, 150 West 17th St and) (7pm) 150 Designers, $1 Million in Merchandise, 50 - 70% off! Guests will enjoy exclusive preview shopping at our Chelsea location and then cocktails, VIP banquettes, hors d’oeuvres and auction nearby. Public Sample Sale at Chelsea Thrift Shop. Features more then a million dollars in fashionable apparel and beauty merchandise. Nov 19th Opening Benefit at Rubin Museum. ($100) Event Website

(Exit Art, 475 Tenth Avenue, New York, NY 10036) (7pm to 12am) REVEL is Stonewall's signature younger donor cocktail party. A quintessential New York experience, the party brings together LGBT professionals and their friends for a night of exceptional goodwill and music. This year's event will feature DJ Corey Craig at the turntables and an open-bar courtesy of Stolichnaya Vodka. All proceeds from REVEL support the work of Stonewall to strengthen the LGBT community and its organizations. ($65+; $25 tickets for individuals 25 and under) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30 -9pm) The sixth annual community forum and networking event for lesbians, bisexual women, transgender people living with cancer, cancer survivors and care partners. A Talk and Q & A by Elizabeth Lorde-Rollins, MD, (Topic to be announced). A Meet & Greet with Glennda Testone, The Center’s new Executive Director. Creative Works by Artists in the LCI Community. (FREE) Event Website

(The Center for Fiction, 17 E. 47th Street, New York, NY 10017) (7PM) When we curl up into our favorite armchair and settle down to read a great book we often overlook one of the main ingredients in our favorite stories— craft. This talk will reveal the bones of good writing—whether it’s how an author introduces a new character, how dialogue is used, or how to structure a story. Our Craftwork Lectures are presented in collaboration with One Story Magazine. This evening's lecture will be presented by A. M. Homes. She is the author of Jack, This Book Will Save Your Life, The Safety of Objects, and many others including most recently her memoir, The Mistress’s Daughter. She is a Contributing Editor to Vanity Fair, Bomb and Blind Spot. ($7.50) Event Website

(Rubin Museum of Art, 150 West 17th St, New York, NY 10012) (6PM) Out Professionals and OP.LYNX retool our popular Museum Mixers by stirring up the stunning Rubin Museum of Art in the heart of Chelsea for after work networking. Enjoy art from the far side of the world right in the center of Manhattan, including the current exhibits featuring the mysteries of the Himalayas, Kathmandu and The Mandala. (FREE open bar) Event Website

(Various Locations) This November, prepare to set sail for the most extravagant and fanciful gathering of castaways, sailors, glittering mermaids, sea sirens, pirates, romantic sea captains and scalawags ever known to New York! As seen on NHK, MTV and SPIN, the Dances of Vice Festival returns in a three-day nautical themed flight of fancy that will be held in several stunning and exclusive locations: Fort Hamilton (ca. 1825), a handsome historical armory which overlooks the New York Bay - The Montauk Club (ca. 1889), an opulent Victorian clubhouse modeled after a Venetian palace - and The Vault of Element - architectural marvels of the 19th Century. The festival program will feature live music ranging from classical to rock ballads, international guests, fashion shows, dance, performance art, vendors, and ballroom dancing, among other chimerical amusements. ($30+) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6 - 10pm) Join the Gender Identity Project in reflecting on the lives of community members we've lost to oppression, stigma and violence. Vigil, guest speakers, and community speakout. (FREE) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6pm) Join Lesbian Cinema Arts for What's Cooking? (109 minutes). That most American of holidays, Thanksgiving, serves as the focal point for this raptly celebratory look at the modern American family. What's Cooking? interweaves the workings of four diverse Los Angeles households. Immerse yourself in this delightful comedy and join in the fun. Cast includes: Julia Marguilies, Joan Chen, Alfre Woodard, Kyra Sedgewick, Mercedes Ruehl and Lainie Kazan. ($8 online or $10 at the door) Event Website

(The FAC Center, 621 Degraw Street, Brooklyn, NY 11217) (7:00 PM) Brooklyn Pride is proud to sponsor this workshop presented by Certified Social Media Marketing Specialist, Doreen DeJesus. This workshop focuses on the importance of implementing a social media strategy in marketing your business. The three main platforms will be emphasized. Information about free tools to employ goals will be reviewed. Handouts provided. Free refreshments. For more info see www.brooklynpride.org. (Free) ((718) 928-3320 Ext 3) Event Website

(The Bleecker Street Theater, 45 Bleecker St., @ Lafayette, New York, NY 10003) (8:00 pm) On the eve of the publication of Jonny Porkpie’s lurid pulp novel “The Corpse Wore Pasties”, Pinchbottom’s burlesque book party celebration is in full swing... until the show’s performers see the manuscript for the first time and notice distinct similarities between themselves and the characters in the book. Tempers flare, bodices rip, tassels twirl... and Porkpie ends up dead. So co-producer Nasty Canasta dons her detective panties and attempts to uncover the murderer before the final curtain — with a little help from you. ($20) (866-811-4111) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00PM) It’s speed-dating with a unique twist: answer four questions about your interests, values, and lifestyle, and get assigned to four different groups of men who gave answers similar to yours. Also meet guys one-on-one in a free mingling period. Finally, write a list of the men you want to date, and minutes later you find out your mutual matches. Boyfriend Material is a fun, unique way to meet men you are compatible with, thereby increasing your odds that a relationship could take hold! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (7-10pm) An evening of Social Expressionism Poetry, Singing, Book Readings, & more....Community Artist Addressing Community Issues. A Pre-Holiday Benefit & Market Place & Gallery (with Silent Auction) Featuring: G Winston James -Author of Shaming the Devil Renair- Spoken Word Diva Mildred Artist formally know as “Dred” Devin Christy – Vocalist, Stefon Royce, Impersonator & more........Gallery Artist Charly Dominguez & John Hanning. Vendors & Exhibitors wanted now ($40 special) Circle of Voices Inc. ($10 aadv/$15 @Door) Event Website

(Central Park, Bethesda Fountain) The Race to Deliver is an event for the whole family, featuring a 4-Mile Run/Walk and a Kids Fun Run with special distances for all age groups. Since its inception, over 70,000 New Yorkers have joined this Central Park run to raise funds to provide life-sustaining meals for men, women and children living with HIV/AIDS, cancer and other life-altering illnesses. Event Website

(Don't Tell Mama, 343 West 46th Street, New York, NY 10036) (5:30PM) "Hector Coris dares to sing about mortality, and easily travels from comedy to pathos, bringing the audience from laughter to tears within the breath of a moment. ‘Life is Wonderful.’ is actually a healing experience.”- Kevin Scott Hall, EDGE New York Through the songs of William Finn, Jason Mraz, My Chemical Romance, Kander & Ebb, Zoe Lewis, Christine Lavin and other contemporary songwriters, Hector explores the musicality of mortality. With Musical Direction by Ray Bailey; on Cello, Dale Henderson; Directed by Angela Shultz ($14 cover + 2 drink min.) (212 757 0788) [email protected] Event Website

(Comix, 353 west 14th street, New York, NY 10014) (9 PM) Find out why Dykes on Mics was named one of the top lesbian theatre events in the country in the December 2009 issue of Curve Magazine! Dykes on Week has sold out shows across the Northeast and their NYC show has been billed as a “best bet” for comedy in Time Out New York. The show features two hilarious New York based comedians: Leah Dubie (HERE TV) and Amy Beckerman (MTV). The ladies have performed at Provincetown’s Women’s in Time Out New York. Recently, the group was featured in the LOGO documentary “Out In the City.” (1 item min) Event Website

(NEW ROUTE! Begins 77th St & CPW to CPS to Seventh Ave across 42nd Street to Sixth Ave. to 34th St Herald Square) 2.5 million spectators line the streets each year to see their favorite balloon characters and a few new cast members, including Chicken Little, the rambunctious M&M’s Red and Yellow, and the very square SpongeBob SquarePants. NEW ROUTE....parade is going down Seventh Avenue not Broadway. Every year on Thanksgiving Eve from 3 to 10 pm, thousands of New Yorkers and visitors converge on the Upper West Side's Central Park West to watch the giant balloons get their fill of helium. The event grew out of a fascination with seeing how these magical creations come to life. Event Website

(New York City Lab School, 333 West 17th Street, New York, NY 10011) (See website for schedule) Big Meeting @ GLBT November 26th @ 6PM. Four great days of fellowship, growth, laughter, and exciting recovery in the greatest city on earth. Learn skills and make connections to achieve a life ... Make this a Thanksgiving you will never forget. ($45) Event Website

(Location with RSVP) This is an open invitation to the LGBTQ Community, 18 years and older to some celebrate the holidays with the community through the LPSS "Holiday Connections" Program. (Westchester NY) The "LGBTQ Family Events" are traditionally a potluck get-together, hosted at the home of a member of the community. Whether you come for the day or just for dessert, you are welcome to join in the fun that community can offer. (A dish & $5 donation requested) (914-514-3220) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (12 - 7pm) Thousands of exciting, erotic, imaginative and original pieces of gay art will line the walls of the third floor auditorium of the LGBT Center. Meet new artists, as well as established members of the community. Gala Reception on Friday, November 27 at 6:30pm, $35. ($20) Event Website

(Cathedral of St. John the Divine, 112th St & Amsterdam Ave, New York, NY 10025) (12:15 PM) This Service will be the first Eucharist of Remembrance that marks the beginning of our 25th year of bringing comfort and strength to those who have loved ones who have died of HIV-AIDS related illness. Names of Loved Ones who havedied of AIDS-HIV related Illiness can be entered into the Book of Remembrance and also named in the prayers (FREE) [email protected]

(Metropolitan Room, 34 West 22nd St, New York, NY 10010) (7:00 PM) It’s the most wonderful time of the year! Edd Clark and Sue Matsuki kick off the holiday season by bringing a new version of their annual sell-out Sue & Edd’s FABULOUS Christmas Show to the Metropolitan Room. She’s jazzy and he’s legit; she’s a multi-MAC Award winner and he’s a Bistro Award winner; together they’re returning with their annual show to ring in the holiday season! It’s time to break out the hot toddies, hot chocolate, and cookies! ($20 cover/2 drink minimum) (212-206-0440) [email protected] Event Website

(St Augustine Church, 116 6th Avenue, Park Slope, Brooklyn, NY 11215) (7PM) Please join us for our World AIDS Day interfaith prayer servicet at St. Augustine's Roman Catholic Church in Park Slope. There will be music by the Gay Men's Chorus of Manhattan, an inspiring group of choral musicians dedicated to promoting social tolerance and acceptance. Also, on display will be a collection of paintings by Maureen Mullen. Entitled, “Preparation Series,” its a group of paintings created out of the artist’s response to and connection with a loved one as he was taking a spiritual and physical journey through AIDS. Reception to follow the service. (Free) (516 220-7299)

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(Carnegie Hall, 881 Seventh Avenue, New York, NY 10019) (7:00pm) The Collegiate Chorale, led by Maestro James Bagwell in his inaugural concert as The Chorale’s newly appointed Music Director, presents A JUBILANT SONG, a celebration of the organization’s remarkable history of exceptional conductors, noteworthy commissions and premieres, and multi-faceted choral programming. Tickets are available through CarnegieCharge at 212-247-7800, at the Carnegie Hall Box Office, or online at www.carnegiehall.org. ($25-$125) (646-202-9623) Event Website