(Various Locations) Over 250 participants, including musicians, color guard, honor guard, dancers and auxiliary will converge on NYC to march in the colorful night time Greenwich Village Halloween Parade and attend other activities. Event Website

(Pier 60, 23rd St & the Hudson River, New York, NY 10011) (7pm) This evening unites leaders from the women’s business, cultural and civic arenas. Dinner, dancing, luxury raffle and awards presentation. To benefit women’s services at The GLBT Community Center. Event Website

(ELMO LOUNGE, 156 Seventh Ave., (Btwn 20th & 19th St.), New York, NY 10011) (10pm-3am) The best sophisticated lesbian party in NYC with DJs Zuleica spinnin the best in Hip-Hop and R&B, DJ Lady bringing down the house with Dance/Tribal & Charo spinnin the best in Latin dn much more.... Come an enjoy a night of great music, beautiful ladies & intimate setting!! ***Ladies we are giving away surprise giveaways with plenty of parking with in the location*** ($10.00) [email protected] Event Website

(Zipper Factory, 336 West 37th St, New York, NY 10018) (Midnight) Anita Cookie, Clams Casino and Neil O'Fortune return to The Zipper with an unbeatable lineup of burlesque stars in a tribute to the Material Girl herself! Along with your hosts Anita, Clams and Neil, the show stars Creamy Stevens, Dirty Martini, Delirium Tremens, Little Brooklyn, Ruby Valentine and Trixie Little and the Evil Hate Monkey! For one night only New York's biggest stars of the bump 'n' grind will thank her the only way they know how: by blowing away the audience with brilliant new performances to songs throughout Madonna's career, from her biggest hits to lesser-known gems. ($15) (212-352-3101) Event Website

(Brecht Forum, 451 West St, New York, NY 10014) A progressive socially conscious film festival that will bring you the best Black LGBTQ theme films from around the world. The four day festival consists of not only ground-breaking films but also panel discussions with filmmakers, industry professionals and community leaders followed by a music concert from some of the hottest emerging and establish leading musicians. Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) CatrinasDia De Los Muertos (Day of the Dead) celebrates the life and memory of our ancestors and loved ones who have passed away. This ritual has been observed by indigenous cultures and Latinas\os for over 3000 years. The holiday focuses on gatherings of family and friends to celebrate and remember friends and relatives who have died. Traditions include building private altars honoring the deceased, and offering sugar skulls, marigolds, and the favorite foods and beverages of the departed. In this spirit, The Center will create an alter to honor the memory of the members of our community who worked tirelessly to empower and transform our community. We invite others to participate in this event by helping to decorate the alter with flowers, candles, sugar skulls or by bringing the favorite beverage or food of a family member or friend who has passed away. (Free) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm-10pm) Have you been looking for an alternative to the bar scene and overcrowded events where you can't really connect? At this fun, dynamic event meet fabulous men who want to make meaningful, personal and quality connections for friendship, dating or romance. Mingle and meet more men during free refreshment break. Exchange numbers with those men you feel most compatible with. Great success rate. Empowering, entertaining, non-intimidating. Run by comedian. Not to be missed. Relaxed, non-intimidating. ($20) (212-989-8549) [email protected] Event Website

(The New York Hall of Science, 47-01 111th Street, Flushing Meadows Corona Park, Queens, NY 11368) (1 - 5pm) Artist Klara Hobza’s one-day project re-imagines the historic paper airplane contest of 1967 at the Great Hall. Competition is open to the public. Judging criteria include: distance flown, duration, beauty, biggest failure, a children’s division, and more! Notable planes and the stories behind their design will be collected in a corresponding book due out in Spring 2009. Public Art Fund will also be providing a free shuttle bus from Manhattan (FREE) [email protected] Event Website

(The Tunnel, 269 11th Avenue, New York City, NY 10001) (11-7PM) 11th annual Editions | Artists’ Book Fair (E | AB) showcasing the latest in contemporary prints, editions, and multiples. Featuring 64 dealers and publishers from 6 countries. Food catered by Tom Colicchio's 'wichcraft cafe and an on-site lounge furnished by Kartell. Opening night preview benefits P.S.1 Contemporary Art Center. DJs: Lovett/Codagnone. (FREE) ((212) 647-9111) [email protected] Event Website

(Bronx Academy of Arts, 841 Baretto St, 2nd Fl, Bronx, NY 10474) (Varies check website) BlakTino Performance Series, a festival celebrating works by Black, Latino and Blatino artists on continues to November 8 with art, literature, theatre, music and dance. BAAD! has consistently interwoven queer artists and queer programming into all of its festival and the remaining events include an evening of queer authors, an evening of LGBT Jazz artists and a play exploring cultural and sexual identity. BAAD! ($15-20) (718) 842-5223) Event Website

(Galapagos Art Space, 70 North 6th St, Williamsburg, Brooklyn, NY 11211) (9pm) A ghoulish menagerie of haunting proportions, with magic, burlesque banshees, fire dancers and special guests, including: Greek Goddess of burlesque, Pandora; delightful tasseled and fringed vintage tap dancing by The Minsky Sisters; Harlequin ballerina go-go dancing by The Love Show dancers; and sexy fire hooping antics by The Gyronauts. Plus, fantastical face and body painting by All-Seeing Mystik Painteresse Elyzabeth. The Music: The Dreamland Septet will cut loose with a special, all Hot-Jazz programme. Freebass, featuring DJ Shakey & Aaroneus, will close the night with a live swing remix dance set. ($10) Event Website

(5 Boroughs) The premier event of New York Road Runners, the ING New York City Marathon is one of the world's great road races, drawing more than 100,000 applicants. The race attracts many world-class professional athletes, not only for the more than $600,000 in prize money, but also for the chance to excel in the media capital of the world before two million cheering spectators and 315 million worldwide television viewers. As any one of the more than 700,000 past participants will attest, crossing the finish line in Central Park is one of the great thrills of a lifetime. Event Website

(The Triad Theater, 158 W 72nd St, New York, NY 10028) (7:30 PM) Celebrity Autobiography is the hysterical new show that features a revolving cast of celebrity performers interpreting the actual words and stories written by the famous and the infamous. The rotating company includes Cheyenne Jackson ("Xanadu"), Seth Rudetsky (Legally Blonde MTV), Rachel Dratch ("Saturday Night Live"), Susie Essman (“Curb Your Enthusiasm"), Carson Kressley (“”How to Look Good Naked”), Sherri Shepherd (“The View”), Emmy winner Bruce Vilanch and others. Use code CELEB5 and get tickets for only $28 (thru 11/17)! ($45/$35) Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (6:30 - 8pm) Meet the Tony Award-winning stage and screen actress, now starring in the hit Broadway show "Gypsy." Discussion followed by CD sale and signing of the November 11 Ghostlight release of "Patti LuPone at Les Mouches," a recording of her legendary 1980 solo show. Interviewed by Anthony Tommasini, chief music critic of The New York Times. ($30) Event Website

(Kaufmann Concert Hall, 1395 Lexington Ave, at 92nd, New York, NY 10128) (8pm) Together Richard Maltby, Jr. (lyricist of Miss Saigon and The Pirate Queen) and David Shire (Academy Award-winning composer of “It Goes Like It Goes” from Norma Rae) have created numerous on- and off-Broadway shows including Baby, Big, Closer Than Ever, Starting Here, Starting Now and the upcoming Take Flight. Maltby and Shire will be joined by some of their favorite singers. ($40) Event Website

(Insight Meditation Center, 28 West 27th St, 10th floor, New York, NY 10001) (6:30pm to 9:00pm) Please join us for Empowered Communication! In this course, you will learn to: * Enjoy greater ease and flow in empathy guessing * Practice “giraffe honesty” vs. “jackal honesty” (“screaming in giraffe”) * Hear the “Yes” behind the “No” (hearing and saying “no” with honesty, ease, and connection)* Draw on self-empathy (in response to both external & internal stimuli)* Make use of interruption & pacing skills in charged situations* Hear and express anger (matching your level of response to level of intensity) (Sliding Scale $345-545, register by Oct 17th get $50 off, payment plans available, contact for info) (718 797 96525) [email protected] Event Website

Rock the vote!

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (6pm) Get insight and perspective on the battle for the White House from key New York Times political reporters and editors, including executive editor Bill Keller, managing editor Jill Abramson, assistant managing editor Richard L. Berke, editorial page editor Andrew M. Rosenthal, Op-Ed columnists Gail Collins and Frank Rich, national political correspondent Adam Nagourney and others. Discussion moderated by Times Magazine contributing writer Matt Bai with Sam Roberts, Times urban affairs correspondent and host of NY-1's "New York Close-Up." Discussion: 6 - 8PM. All-American Food & Drink plus Televised Returns: 8 - 10PM. ($80) Event Website

(Brecht Forum, 451 West St, New York, NY 10014) (5pm) The NYC Grassroots Media Coalition and Brecht Forum will host a conversation with refreshments and music on the role of the media in this year’s election coverage. No matter who wins this election the fight for media justice continues. Let’s discuss what’s happening beyond the ballot box. Sponsored by The Brecht Forum, Global Action Project, GoLeft.org, The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, and the NYC Grassroots Media Coalition. Event Website

(Various Locations) A highlight again this year is the second annual Stand Up For Heroes: A Benefit for the Bob Woodruff Foundation at Town Hall. Regis Philbin will host star performances by Ricky Gervais, John Pinette, Bruce Springsteen and Patti Scialfa. Whoopi Goldberg and James Niven of Sotheby's will make a special appearance as the guest auctioneers. In honor of the United States' injured service members, the evening promises unforgettable performances, laughter, and sincere gratitude. Event Website

(New World Stages, 340 W 50th St, New York, NY 10019) (8pm) Winner of the 2005 Outer Critics Circle Award, ALTAR BOYZ is a hilarious musical-comedy spoof about five hot and ambitious young performers on the rise to stardom. Specially priced $25 tickets, pre-Show party at TONY Lounge (located in the theatre), one free cocktail ($25) Event Website

(NY Public Library, 5th Ave at 42nd St, New York, NY 10018) (5:15pm) Have you been intimidated by the monumental volume of information and directories at the New York Public Library? Not sure where or how to begin your search for new business leads? Interested in niche targeting within the LGBT community or other markets, but have come up with scattered results from internet searching? The Science Industry Business Library (SIBL) is a priceless resource for building your business and taking it to the next level — and the best part, is that all of the database resources are free! In this exclusive LGBT-2-B event, “Companies & Contacts,” experts at SIBL will walk us through the process to get you started, showing you how easy it is to find what you are looking for, and how incredibly vital NYPL can be to your continued business growth. RSVP NOW! Workshop size is very limited. (Free) (212-473-7805) Event Website

(Joyce SoHo, 155 Mercer Street, New York, NY 10012) (8pm - 9pm, 3pm - 4pm) Parallel Exit, New York’s highly acclaimed physical theatre company, returns to Joyce SoHo with TIME STEP, a brand new work blending tap, rhythm, and physical comedy. Fresh, funny, and filled with visual magic, TIME STEP tells the story of three hoofers entirely through rhythm and choreography. The narrative jumps back and forth in time, juxtaposing the characters’ performances from their youth with their attempts to transcend the limits of age. ($15) (212-352-3101) [email protected] Event Website

(MCCNY, 446 West 36th St, New York, NY 10018) (8PM-10PM) AVOW..by Bill C. Davis A dramatic play examining the devotion and commitment to ones personal and mutual vow. Brian and Tom struggle to keep their relationship alive and vows to each other after receiving the disapproval of there long time friend and parish priest Father Raymond. Irene, Brian's sister, a concert musician and pregnant from an affair falls for Father Raymond unexpectedly while trying to mediate the situation between Brian and Tom. (10.00) [email protected] Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (7PM) It’s fun, it’s competitive and it’s all about instinct. Sneak over to the JCC for our one night, women-only poker club. We provide the beer, snacks and everything you need for a winning hand, including a professional dealer and instructor. Beginners and seasoned players will be equally at home. Start practicing your bluffing face because the cool cats always take home the pot! ($15/$20) (646.505.5708) Event Website

(Brooklyn Museum, 200 Eastern Pkwy, Brooklyn, NY 11238) (12:30pm) The Brooklyn Museum Community Committee and the Director invite you to Women in the Arts 2008 honoring Cindy Sherman, renowned photographer and artist. A special event to salute the many contributions women have made and continue to make in the areas of arts and culture. A program offering an overview of the artist’s work and the award presentation will be followed by a reception and luncheon in the newly refurbished Beaux-Arts Court. Proceeds benefit the Brooklyn Museum’s educational and cultural programs. ($150+) Event Website

(St. Peter's Church, 346 West 20th St, New York, NY 10011) (7:30-10pm (7/8); 3:30-5pm (9)) The Bear is a comedic melodrama by British composer William Walton who is more readily known for his heroic film scores. The Bear’s satirical comedy is evident from the orchestra’s first notes. It is based on Chekhov’s vaudeville play, also titled The Bear. In contrast, The Scarf, by American composer Lee Hoiby, is a dark, verismo–like drama, reminiscent of Puccini’s Il Tabarro. Based on Chekhov’s story The Witch, it sizzles with a scorned husband’s accusation of his wife’s witchcraft and infidelity. ($35, $35, $20 in advance) (2122601796) [email protected] Event Website

(Various Locations) It's every chocoholics wet dream! Chocolate samples, demonstrations, fashion shows, kids activities, renowned chefs and authors, and more. Event Website

(The New-York Historical Society, 170 Central Park West, New York, NY 10024) (6:30 pm) "Jazz “great” Jay Leonhart (bassist) is joined by three other prominent figures from the New York jazz scene. Together, this electrifying quartet of highly regarded musicians will perform a program of music from some of New York's finest jazz composers. (Free) Event Website

(Pier 94, 711 12th Ave, New York, NY 10019) (10am - 5pm) See the makings of Great Meals by Great Chefs. 75,000 square feet will be dedicated to the Tasting Pavilion, where attendees will have the opportunity to indulge in gourmet cheeses, procured meats, fine wines and spirits. Also featured: Pan-Asian Pavilion, Fine Waters Pavilion and Coffee & Tea. Event Website

(Community Health Action, 380 Van Duzer St, Staten Island, NY 10304) (730 - 1030) Open Mic for singers, songwriters, musicians, rappers, performance artists, poets and the like! Come nosh, mingle, sip, munch, schmooze, engage in some hot conversation, be entertained or be totally entertaining! All are welcome. (FREE admission) (718 808-1630) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (9pm) DJ Quinten Harris will bring the bears out of their caves with his mixing magic. Be warned…fur ahead! There are two floors of dancing, (SPIT Lounge with DJ Mike Grimes and Paul Short) go-go bears, cheap beer, bear art, and warm, warm fur...and over 700 furry friends. ($10) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00 PM - 10:00 PM) At this Speed-Dating event, meet lots of guys ages 30s & 40s one-on-one for a series of 3-minute dates, then get a free mingling period to meet anyone else in the room. Tell us which men you want a second date with, and minutes later you find out your matches. This is a great opportunity to meet guys for time-efficient face-to-face contact and see what kind of chemistry is there. It’s a lot of fun and could lead to meeting someone special! ($20) (212-971-1084) [email protected] Event Website

(Cattyshack, 249 4th Ave, Park Slope, Brooklyn, NY 11215, Venue Website) (1 - 4:30pm) OP.LYNX presents the QUARTERLY FILMMAKER BRUNCH SERIES. See Alice Wu's delightful film SAVING FACE and meet friends, network and talk about issues related the portrayal of lesbians in film and mainstream media. Lesli Klainberg's experience and professional insight bring an added dimension to this brunch. SAVING FACE is a romantic comedy about a daughter struggling to understand her mother's heart, which ultimately allows her to understand her own. It is the story of unspoken loves, contemporary and cultural taboos, and the journey of two women towards living their lives honestly. ($15/$10) Event Website

(Housing Works Warehousex, 48-49 35th St, Long Island City, Queens, NY 11101) (10am - 4pm) Housing Works' beloved twice-monthly warehouse sales make it easier than ever for you to find flawed-but-fabulous designer items among the overstock. For $20, you get a shopping bag to fill with as much of the overstock clothing as will fit. For $30, you get a shopping bag filled entirely with men’s and women’s pre-sorted designer items! To benefit Housing Works. ($20) Event Website

(Queens Museum of Art, Rushing Meadows Corona Park, Queens, NY 11368) (3 PM) The acclaimed Melodia Women's Choir presents a free concert of excerpts from their full "Wrapped In Song" event (Nov. 15 and 16 at St. Peters Church on West 20th St. in Manhattan). Featured are Benjamin Britten's "Ceremony Of Carols" and other pieces. (Free) (212-252-4134) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8pm-10pm) An interactive, fun, non-threatening mixer. Meeting like minded lesbians can be challenging. Bars are rarely the place to find a soul mate or make new friends. Tonight - -the solution. One-on-one and small group activities plus a fun ice-breaker maximizes chances of meeting someone special who shares the same values. No pressure. Exchange numbers at refreshment/mingling break. Exciting, entertaining evening you don't want to miss. Run by comedian Marilyn Galfin. ($21 pre-pay $26 door) (212-989-8549) [email protected] Event Website

(Intrepid Museum, Pier 86, 12th Ave & 46th St, New York, NY 10036) The NEW Intrepid Museum opens its doors to the public for the first time after a 2-year renovation project which included new exhibit installations, restored aircraft, a new public park-like pier, new interactive exhibits, dry-docking and a new paint job for the former USS Intrepid. All day festivities and a spectacular FIREWORKS show. Event Website

(92nd Street Y, 1395 Lexington Ave, New York, NY 10128) (7:30pm) The New York Times best-selling author, Neil Gaiman, discusses Sandman, the acclaimed comic book series widely considered to be one of the most original and artistically ambitious series of the modern age. Sandman is a rich blend of modern myth and dark fantasy in which contemporary fiction, historical drama and legend are seamlessly interwoven. Gaiman is the author of children’s and adult titles including, The Graveyard Book, American Gods, Coraline, Neverwhere and Stardust. He also co-wrote the screenplay for Beowulf with Roger Avary. Chip Kidd is an author, graphic designer and editor. He is the author of the forthcoming Bat-Manga!: The Secret History of Batman in Japan. ($27) Event Website

(Don't Tell Mama, 343 West 46th Street, New York, NY 10036) (Varies see website) Stearns Matthews, the multi-talented singer with the soaring baritone rounds out his debut year in a return to Don’t Tell Mama this November. Stearns appeared at the same club this past July to a sold out audience followed by a critically acclaimed appearance at The Duplex. MAC Award Winner Steven Ray Watkins is musical director. ($15 cover, 2 drink minimum) ((212) 757-0788) Event Website

(Skylight Studios, 275 Hudson St, New York, NY 10013) (7pm) GMHC launched Fashion Forward in 2007 to salute the fashion industry's longstanding commitment to fighting HIV and AIDS. This high-profile event will include a cocktail reception, live and silent auction followed by a runway fashion show featuring the works of Michael Bastian, Tim Hamilton, Betsey Johnson, Charles Nolan, Ports 1961 by Tia Cibani and John Varvatos. 500 guests are expected, which will be comprised of leaders of the fashion community, socialites, corporate donors, retailers and media alike. Tim Gunn, of Project Runway, will reprise his role as Master of Ceremonies. To benefit GMHC. ($100+) Event Website

(Cipriani’s, 200 Fifth Ave at 23rd St, New York, NY 10010) Special Performances by Cyndi Lauper and Miri Ben-Ari. Emcee Rex Lee. Honorees: Scissor Sisters, presented by Richie Rich and Trever Rains; Polo Ralph Lauren, presented by Carson Kressley; Jeffrey Kalinsky, presented by Bari Mattes and Kenneth “Symba” Rios, presented by Heather Matarazzo. Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (7pm) The Center, Celebrating its 25th anniversary, presents a very special evening with Tony Award-winner Elaine Stritch and the legendary columnist, Liz Smith. Ms. Stritch and Ms. Smith will share an intimate conversation highlighting Ms. Stritch's illustrious show business career, which includes work on Broadway, the West End, film and television. Special Center Musical Performance: An exclusive performance for 200 guests. ($75+) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) This multi-day event features Leather Market Place with numerous vendors of leather goods and apparel, five workshops and educational seminars; a Gay/Lesbian Erotic Art Fair where local artists will sell their works. Both female and male presenters, open to everyone. ($10) Event Website

(Stage Left Studio, 438 W 37th Street 5A, New York, NY 10018) (8pm) On the occasion of her mid-life meltdown, The Lovely And Talented Miss Toni Silver -- the best middle-aged, gay, Jewish, tap-dancing, feminist, performance artist in America -- splits the seams between humiliation and triumph, challenging myths about how life is supposed to be lived while wrestling with the illusion of permanence. Event Website

(Rubin Museum of Art, 150 West 17th St, New York, NY 10012) (7pm) Fashion for Action 2008, a four day-long fundraising event will begin with a special opening night reception on Thursday, November 13th. Guests will enjoy exclusive preview shopping, cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, a silent auction and live entertainment. ($100) Event Website

(The New-York Historical Society, 170 Central Park West, New York, NY 10024) (6:30pm/7:45 pm) Jazz “great” Jay Leonhart (bassist) is joined by three other prominent figures from the New York jazz scene. Together, this electrifying quartet of highly regarded musicians will perform a program of music from some of New York's finest jazz composers. (free) (212-873-3400) [email protected] Event Website

(The New-York Historical Society, 170 Central Park West, New York, NY 10024) (6:30 pm) This internationally acclaimed, New York City-based, vocal sextet is known for the depth, beauty, and vivacity of their performances. They've promised an eclectic— and uniquely American—program that is a confluence of madrigal, Afro-Latin, jazzpop, and contemporary classical styles, and figures like Jack Kerouac, Philip Glass, Billy Joel, e.e. cummings, Duke Ellington, and Meredith Monk. (free) (212-873-3400) [email protected] Event Website

(The Space, 300 W. 43rd Street, 4th Floor, New York, NY 10036) (7:30pm) The 3rd Annual GLAM DIVAS SHOW. A theatrical presentation, where Artist Robert Monegan brings his Glam Diva greeting cards TO LIFE. One night only. SPECIAL GUEST: Steven Brinberg as SIMPLY BARBRA. All box office proceeds will be donated to The Parkinson's Disease Foundation. The Parkinson's Disease Foundation ($15.00) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:30pm) Laughing Matters...Next Gen! features Edison Apple, Amy Tee, Daniel Leary, Gloria Bigelow, Ryan Hill, and Bridget McManus. After searching for nearly a year before casting for the fourth installment in her award-winning LAUGHING MATTERS series, director Andrea Meyerson has put together an outstanding cast of the new up and coming comics on the LGBT comedy circuit. Shot in her winning formula that interweaves stand-up material with candid interviews, viewers are given the opportunity to at once laugh and simultaneously meet the person behind the comedy. Scheduled to attend the screening is director Andrea Meyerson, cast members Gloria Bigelow, Daniel Leary, Bridget McManus and Amy Tee. ($10) Event Website

(Broadway Comedy Club, 318 West 53rd St, New York, NY 10019) (6:30pm) Gregg Greenberg presents the World Premiere of his new comedy CLEMENZA AND TESSIO ARE DEAD. Set in New York from 1945 to 1955, we follow Corleone family veterans Peter Clemenza and Salvatore Tessio as they struggle to control their destinies. A retiring Don Corleone hands control of the organization to his incompetent children and, feeling squeezed out of a business that they helped to create, Clemenza and Tessio attempt to change their fates in a script that has already been written. ($15) ((646) 765-4773) [email protected] Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (6:30pm) With 22 James Bond films now in the film industry's longest-running franchise, Sir Roger Moore is still the longest-serving 007. His new book, "My Word Is My Bond," recounts his experiences playing the secret agent in seven Bond films, from “Live and Let Die” to "A View to a Kill." Don’t miss this opportunity to hear him comment on his life and career, scenes shown from the films and the development of the Ian Fleming character as played by six different actors from 1962 to 2008. Interviewed by A.O. Scott, New York Times chief film critic. ($30) Event Website

(The Laurie Beechman Theatre (West Bank Cafe), 407 West 42 Street, New York, NY 10036) (7:00pm-8:15pm) Award-winning songwriter Hector Coris and Alan Cancelino present their newest musical comedy revue about life...as we blow it. Contemporary social and political topics get skewered, like gay animals, the presidential race, cosmetic surgery, internet dating, bi-sexuality and more! ($15 + $15 food/drink minimum) (212 695-6909) [email protected] Event Website

(Cinema Arts Centre, 423 Park Ave., Huntington, NY 11743) (7:00 PM - 11:00 PM) The Long Island Gay and Lesbian Film Festival, Long Island’s largest LGBT arts event, returns for its eleventh year. An exciting program of over 50 films, truly something for everyone, including a winning lineup of LGBT film, panel discussions, film makers, receptions, galas and events in an incredibel venue. A short taxi ride from the Huntington LIRR train station. Check the website for descriptions of the films and the receptipns. ($6.00 - $12.00) [email protected] Event Website

(Jacob Javits Center, 655 West 34th St, New York, NY 10001) LGBT businesses and community members meet up to share economic and social resources. Musicians, singers and comedians keep it lively. Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (8:00 PM - 10:00 PM) It’s speed-dating with an ingenious twist: answer four questions about your interests, values, and lifestyle, and get assigned to four different groups of women who gave answers similar to yours. Also meet one-on-one in a free mingling period. Finally, write a list of the women you want to date, and minutes later you find out your mutual matches. Compatibility Game is a fun, revolutionary way to meet women you are compatible with, thereby increasing your odds that a relationship could take hold. ($20) (212-971-1084) Event Website

(West Chelsea Arts Building, 526 West 26th St. (10th & 11th Ave.), New York, NY 10001) (1:00 - 3:30 PM) Visit 8 exhibits of cutting-edge painting, sculpture, electronic media & photography, of interest to our queer sensibility, led by a former gay studies professor and art critic for the New York Blade. While you’re there, socialize with arts-oriented gay men & lesbians! ($20) (212-946-1548) Event Website

(Brooklyn Center for the Performing Arts, Brooklyn College, 2900 Campus Road, Brooklyn, NY 11210) (8pm) Argentine company Estampas Porteñas features ten torrid dancers in a seductive journey through the history of Tango, from its origins in the red light district of Buenos Aires to the dazzling world of contemporary ballroom. Under the artistic direction of Carolina Soler and accompanied live by the fiery Quatrotango, the ensemble sets the stage ablaze with its passion and precision. ($45, $30) (718-951-4500) Event Website

(St. Peter's Church, 346 West 20th St, New York, NY 10011) (Nov. 15 at 8 PM; Nov. 16 at 4 PM) The acclaimed Melodia Women's Choir, conducted by Cynthia Powell, presents a holiday concert, with harpist Elaine Christy as guest artist. Featured are Benjamin Britten's "Ceremony Of Carols" and many other pieces. ($20 in advance: $25 at the door) (212-252-4134) Event Website

(New Jersey Performing Arts Center, 1 Center Street, Newark, NJ 07102) (8 PM) A provocative evening with seven performing artists of different races and ethnicities who identify themselves, sexually, as gay, straight, bi-sexual and transgender. Pandora Scooter hosts the evening and has assembled a group of dynamic hip-hop, spoken word, poetry and hip-hop theater artists. ($16) Event Website

(Columbia University, Broadway & 116th St, New York, NY 10027) (9am - 8pm) The LeGaL Foundation, Columbia Outlaws, and the Columbia Program in Gender and Sexuality Law present a unique law conference that will serve as a forum for reflecting on the November elections, commemorating recent LGBTQ legal victories, and strategizing about the way forward for the LGBTQ civil rights movement. Seven panel discussions will be taking place on diverse topics such as same-sex access to family courts, transgender legal advocacy, reforms to HIV/AIDS & Immigration Law and LGBTQ youth homelessness. (212-353-9118) Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (12am) An Interfaith memorial service to honor and remember SAGE clients, members and friends who have passed away in the last two years. For more information, or to submit someone's name for the program, please call Bertis at 212-741-2247. Event Website

(Central Park, 58th St, New York, NY 10155) (8:30am) Join thousands in the Race, which symbolizes the daily race to reach a growing number of clients with the food they need. Event Website

(TheTimesCenter, 242 West 41st Street, New York, NY 10036) (8:30 - 10pm) See clips from the new Focus Features film "Milk" about the first openly gay man elected to major public office in America, and hear from cast members and the creative team as well as friends and associates of the real-life activist and politican Harvey Milk. Panelists include screenwriter Dustin Lance Black, actor James Franco, actor Emile Hirsch and the real-life activist he portrays, NAMES Project AIDS Memorial quilt founder Cleve Jones. Moderated by New York Times editor Marcus Mabry, author of "Twice as Good: Condoleezza Rice and Her Path to Power." ($30) Event Website

(Espace, 635 West 42nd St, New York, NY 10036) (6-9PM) Honoring the visionaries, heroes and trailblazers dedicated to the health and well-being of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities. Callen-Lorde Community Health Center ($300+) Event Website

(Peking Hunan Park Restaurant, 100 Park Ave, new york, NY 10017) (9am - 6pm) Showcase the traditional Chinese cooking skills and techniques through 5 styles of Chinese cuisine. Don’t miss the opportunity to watch great Chinese chefs from all over the world in action. All passes to the preliminaries and finals include sampling of competition dishes by contestants. The award ceremony banquet features all five styles of Chinese cuisines. ($50 - $280) (877-683-7469) [email protected] Event Website

(LGBT Community Center, 208 West 13th St, New York, NY 10011) (6:00 to 8:30 p.m.) Just by attending, you are eligible to win roundtrip travel for two on Continental Airlines! Travel guru Matthew Link and Continental Airlines’ Geralyn Stevens will introduce you to professional travel writers David Kaufman, Gretchen Kelly and Michael Luongo. Marvel at their intense, bizarre, hilarious, and curious travel encounters -- from diving with great white sharks to volunteering in orphanages; from slumbering in haunted luxury haciendas to watching baby-jumping festivals. Learn how you can earn a living as they do! (Nonmembers $10, Members $5) (212.620.7310) [email protected] Event Website

(Barnes & Noble 82nd St, 2289 Broadway at 82nd St, New York, NY 10024) (7pm) Celebrate Bechel's 'illustrious' career with the release of her new book, "The Essential Dykes to Watch Out For." (Free) Event Website

(The Players, 16 Gramercy Park S, New York, NY 10018) (7 pm) Vienna 1920. A forbidden romance and its consequences. Tyne Daly stars as Jitta in a presentation of this rarely heard play. Loosely translated from a Viennese play by Siegfried Trebitsch, the 'atonement' isn't particularly profound but the wicked fun is. ($20) (212-355-7823) Event Website

(JCC in Manhattan, 334 Amsterdam Ave at 76th St, New York, NY 10023, 646-505-4444) (7pm) In this stirring coming of age story set in mid-1970’s Israel, young Rivi documents her feelings in a diary, and reveals how her forbidden crush on her married literature teacher, Michaela, develops into a poignant, erotic and turbulent love affair that lasts for years before its scandalous end. Meet the author. ($5/$7) (646.505.5708) Event Website